He is going to divorce me in ramadan, in my absence
gurtrude wrote:Thank you, for your support. I will let yous know the out come will be, because now HE is on HOLIDAY in my COUNTRY "i cant believe this man has the cheek", whilst i am alone with no money in his country, ..听 听YES HE IS A FRAUDSTER! He has not done the divorce yet, and i really don't believe he will, since it in his own interest that he stays married by the look of things,听
And i still have had not seen him in all this time, so I have no clue how he got yet another visa to my country coz it was not through me! All i get now is threatening messages instructing me to sell the villa or he will sell it from under me and i will get nothing!
听 See, it just proves that you learn something new all the time.Anyway Gurtrude, If he really does divorce you during Ramadan that is exactly the spirit in which you should accept it... as a gift, a present!!! It will very likely be the best one you ever received in your entire life, trust me. The sooner that you're shuck of this one the better!
Cheers,
William James Woodward, EB Experts Team

2. In order for the Talaq (Islamic divorce) to be valid, the woman does not have to be legally present in court.
听 听 Usually the man divorces the woman 'privately' saying 'anti taaliq' - you are divorced - then, he presents himself听 听 听
听 听 to court declaring to a judge that he has pronounced the divorce in such and such date. There is nothing you can听 听do to prevent this divorce. What you should focus on, instead, is to have this divorce accepted in your home
听 country. the Talaq is not accepted everywhere in the western world. There are 2 main condition for an Islamic Talaq to be recognised abroad, which are A. The notification. The petitioner should notify the respondent. B. Both party should be present, or one , at least, legally represented. Then we have an issue of 'habitual residence'.
3. A man in Islam can marry up to 4 women. The premarital document you mentioned - you being notified in case
听 听 he marries another woman is already part of the Egyptian Law. When a man gets married to a second wife the
听 听 court notifies the first, asking her is she wants to continue the marriage or divorce. Never-the-less, there are听 听
听 听 many ways to avoid this, in fact, in most instances, the first wife has no idea the man re-married.
4. If I were you, I would try to sell that property in joint names, ASAP, while he is out of the country, before he gets this idea himself. DEspite one would normally need the approval of the other owner things do happen here,
5. If you do not have children from him, you have no right of maintenance or housing, except then during the 3 months of the 'idda period following the divorce.
6. You mentioned that a 'SHAIKH' conducted the marriage. An Egyptian can marry foreigners only at the Ministry of Justice. The so called sheikh won't be able to do absolutely anything, especially in a case of freud.
7. The user Malagara is giving you a very ill advice. If you lie to EU authorities accusing somebody of an international crime he did not commit, you will go to jail for sure. One cannot fight criminals by 'criminal ways'.
Don't bother about his threats. He can't do anything, this is why he is trying to scare you. It is obvious that he does not wish you to be in the UK while he is there, because he fears you might take legal action and if it comes up he was already married, his visa will be cancelled and he might go to jail as well. You have to demonstrate to the British authorities that he is already married, and your marriage will get annulled, while he will be arrested next time he tries to get a visa to the UK. I think you should do that. The fact that is Id shows 'single' it may be that he already divorced you in Egypt without informing you. In terms of work permit and residence by marriage, they are not what-so-ever related. If you get a marriage residence, you are not automatically entitled to a work permit. Only an employer can give you that. You should try to request the family status of this man, to see whether you appear in it. Without that you cannot obtain the residence and the ID.
rent situations over a cuppa or glass or twoib.听 Maybe support one and other.听 听Do not know how to give contact. details privately because mine keeps hacking my e.mail
So far lawyers has cost me much and done nothing but false hopes
If your husband is asking you to sell the apartment tell him he must put it in your name first or at least send a authorization letter on his behalf to sell to your lawyer. At least this way you will recover your money. As his wife you can let the immigration dept in your country know that he has only married you to obtain a visa and they will cancel his. Just maybe his company has organized this new visa
Jeweler46 wrote:I would also like to inform you that is a website called 'Daniel Pipes'听 - When you visit this site - you will find a 'blog' of which thousands of women have shared their own personal experience simular to your own -
May God Bless you today and always -
Thank you for your contribution.
However, without wishing to detract from the experiences of the women who contributed there, I must dissuade people from the Daniel Pipes site and anything to do with him. Pipes is a loathsome, neo-con, racist, anti-Islam warmonger. Here's just a flavour of this foul and revolting man:--
In 1990, he said: "Western European societies are unprepared for the massive immigration of brown-skinned peoples cooking strange foods and maintaining different standards of hygiene...All immigrants bring exotic customs and attitudes, but Muslim customs are more troublesome than most." (National Review, 11/19/90)
That you are referring people to a virulently anti-Islam hate site indicates to me that you believe that Islam is the problem here and not poverty and desperation.
yousefh wrote:hi,
I am sorry to hear this, did u ask ur lawyer about the Gay thing ?
just ask him if he can play the Gay card ?, it's taboo & forbidden here in Egypt.
if there was no sexual intercourse between u two for 4 months or more, it's the first sign for Homosexual in law.
plus there will be Medical examinations & big Scandal for him (the fear from scandal alone may force him to give up the apartment for you)听
That's completely incorrect, I'm afraid. "Being" gay is not an offence in any Muslim country. Gay sex is illegal to varying degrees in many Muslim countries, although in 15 Muslim countries, including Egypt, it is not forbidden.
Gay men are arrested, on occasion, in Egypt, but under the catch-all provision of fujur.
So telling the authorities that he is gay, will not necessarily produce results. And seeing as he is married, after all, the cops will probably simply discount your allegations.
1- u had to hire a lawyer to review all the papers& contracts between u& ur husband to understand exactly the situation till this moment.
听
2- if I understand right听 ur are a wife for Egyptian man and u live in Egypt听 so by the law u are deserve monthly听 alimony thats should paid from ur husband to u & it s estimated per the total income of ur husband听 听and u can get it by the court & if he refused to pay , he will going to jail till he pay it for u .
3- if he even divorcing u听 u have a financial rights as ex-wife , u can get it by the court too .
4- if u really sure that the house registered听 in ur both names , so there is many civil听 procedures to preserve ur right in the house .
5- u need a lawyer too for the negotiations process with ur husband & his family by the legal way , and to make investigations about the legal situation of ur husband & his financial resources .
I hope that I was helpful for u with this briefly advice .. but in the legal issues the base of every things is the papers . And after that听 we can say if u in good situation or not .
Also I know a very good lawyer , can recommended for u if u want听 ..and听 I wish u all the best .. hope that every things going good .
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