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Lancashire Lad wrote:

That is a very good reply Hollywood. Where you said: "I have many foreign male friends who were hooked with bar girls, educated/upcountry girls, etc."  I think you meant to type "uneducated?

Thank you for that. I meant "uneducated".

hollywoodbkk13 wrote:

Hello tarzan7,

I am a Thai woman who was originally born in BKK. After reading all the comments, I agree with all the comments. There are always good and bad people everywhere. If you look for a gf/wife from bars, it will be hard for you to count on her later. I have many foreign male friends who were hooked with bar girls, educated/upcountry girls, etc. Some are bad and some are good. Even though I gave them some advice, they were fooled by those girls. For example, one of my male friends had a Thai gf. She was early 20s, but she went to my friend's office (he works in BKK) to see him/pick him up from time to time. She did that for almost 2 years, and she firstly told my friend that she came from Chonburi but moved to live in BKK since she was very young with her sister. She even lied to my friend that she studied at RU and had to go back to Chonburi to see her parents every weekend. I told my friend that I couldn't believe this based on what many stories he told me and her look. Later, my friend followed her to Chonburi after my last advice and hecaught her living with a German business man there. He was completely fooled for nearly 2 years by that girl.

What I am telling you about this story is you sometimes can't judge or look at people based on their status, races,religion, education,etc. Each person is unique and completely different. If I were you, I would not look at bar girls. Kinda risky and might break up after marriage later.

To find good ones, there are lots if you walk somewhere such as coffee shops, book shops, etc. You sometimes need to be able to differentiate with people and the areas.

Hope this helps & good luck finding Ms. Right!

over 75% of Thai women I know are married or in relationships or being sponsored and STILL has a geek on the side
believe it or not

tarzan7 wrote:

Where do I find another my friend.

in another bar of course 
This time however just screw her without building up any "relationship".
"Relationships" in Thailand are just a waste of time and money.

blackjack2010 wrote:

yes if you shop in the wrong cheap charlie places you will get the wrong product

Pattaya is sin city
but with 1 million people in the Chonburi district you get the good and the bad

lets say there are 50000 girls working the bars etc

what do the rest do?

offer happy endings in massage shops and freelance in discos , shopping malls and along Beach Road 

blackjack2010 wrote:

hollywoodbkk13 wrote:

Hello tarzan7,

I am a Thai woman who was originally born in BKK. After reading all the comments, I agree with all the comments. There are always good and bad people everywhere. If you look for a gf/wife from bars, it will be hard for you to count on her later. I have many foreign male friends who were hooked with bar girls, educated/upcountry girls, etc. Some are bad and some are good. Even though I gave them some advice, they were fooled by those girls. For example, one of my male friends had a Thai gf. She was early 20s, but she went to my friend's office (he works in BKK) to see him/pick him up from time to time. She did that for almost 2 years, and she firstly told my friend that she came from Chonburi but moved to live in BKK since she was very young with her sister. She even lied to my friend that she studied at RU and had to go back to Chonburi to see her parents every weekend. I told my friend that I couldn't believe this based on what many stories he told me and her look. Later, my friend followed her to Chonburi after my last advice and hecaught her living with a German business man there. He was completely fooled for nearly 2 years by that girl.

What I am telling you about this story is you sometimes can't judge or look at people based on their status, races,religion, education,etc. Each person is unique and completely different. If I were you, I would not look at bar girls. Kinda risky and might break up after marriage later.

To find good ones, there are lots if you walk somewhere such as coffee shops, book shops, etc. You sometimes need to be able to differentiate with people and the areas.

Hope this helps & good luck finding Ms. Right!

over 75% of Thai women I know are married or in relationships or being sponsored and STILL has a geek on the side
believe it or not

I agree with you. Sadly these kind of women do not know the word "enough". I wondered this before why they cheated on their partners/husbands/bfs. Some women have Thai partners but have foreign men as their back ups. Some have foreign partners, but they also have other foreign partners and so on. I do not understand why they did this. It is really bad image for Thai women as a whole.

tarzan7 wrote:

Maybe my girlfriend wants to be bigamist then  because she wants to marry me asap  already booking the room etc lol    I put a stop to it and said a firm NO    i can't believe that every Thai woman is garbage. But who knows. All i know is that i will not over commit

I think you judge people based on what you meet. This is terrible. Even though you go find a woman in another country, you would end up the same way as long as you still want to find girls from the bars! It is just your social circle that takes you to see this kind of woman. Each woman is different even men as well. I think you should evaluate yourself firstly and think about what kind of woman you really want.

Based on my work/travel experiences in many countries, I found that western men seeing bar girls in their countries are different from seeing bar girls in Asia, Russia, Latin America & Africa. You could find a decent and good woman in your country if you could find one; however, it would be hard to find a good one in the countries mentioned above because they do that as their jobs. This means you mostly cannot rely on them. There are some good prostitutes who want to raise their status and help their families, so they do that kind of job then they hope that somebody would help them out by taking them out from bars to men's countries.

As I said earlier, you need to evaluate yourself what kind of woman you want including your social circle and even your friends.

allenbenner wrote:

Freelancers are great if you like to gamble, ...with your health, ... STD or HIV   or with your well being, ...getting drugged and robbed!

can happen in any country

tarzan7 wrote:

Where do I find another my friend. Hear the same stories about girls from internet websites. Seems like the whole thing is a nightmare.

First off, I wouldn't recommend looking for a long-term serious relationship in a house of prostitution or anything like that.
Secondly, remember that women like men as much as men like women. There's a woman out there (in fact many) looking for a guy like you. You just have to look for her.