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Jaitch wrote:

Learn not to answer work related messages or calls outside work hours.

This is the first my rule for my students. I always said to them: if you need any help, pls ask your friends (in FB's group) first, and if everything can't solve, then send email to me. Don't try to contact me by moblie/text/FB's messeage, I won't reply. But if you feel sad about your study/love/life, you can contact me by whatever you want, I will reply immediately! Because I have more than 400 students/semester, if 1 student has 1 question, how can I spend time for myselft聽 ? I don't mind to help, but if it's worth. And they know this rule clearly. They rarely disturb me. That's why I have much time to come here to relax .

bluenz wrote:

' a look of unhappiness is not a welcoming sign,'

Always made me wonder why VN's and Chinese are not allowed to smile on their ID, and Passport photo's.?, Now I know why.

LOL, like your sense of humor though it's slightly ironic :-p

Scarletvn wrote:

bluenz wrote:

' a look of unhappiness is not a welcoming sign,'

Always made me wonder why VN's and Chinese are not allowed to smile on their ID, and Passport photo's.?, Now I know why.

LOL, like your sense of humor though it's slightly ironic :-p

Yes I agree. I tried to smile but cameraman said " pls dont smile". Wonder if there is any rule about it.

Dejavu.dot wrote:

Scarletvn wrote:

bluenz wrote:

' a look of unhappiness is not a welcoming sign,'

Always made me wonder why VN's and Chinese are not allowed to smile on their ID, and Passport photo's.?, Now I know why.

LOL, like your sense of humor though it's slightly ironic :-p

Yes I agree. I tried to smile but cameraman said " pls dont smile". Wonder if there is any rule about it.

Govt. is afraid that they won't recognize people's faces since it differs each time you change your face. What if the first time you smile and next time you laugh then next you frown? :-p

Kidding! But it's true that they don't wanna see to many differences of 1 face.

Scarletvn wrote:

Dejavu.dot wrote:

Scarletvn wrote:

LOL, like your sense of humor though it's slightly ironic :-p

Yes I agree. I tried to smile but cameraman said " pls dont smile". Wonder if there is any rule about it.

Govt. is afraid that they won't recognize people's faces since it differs each time you change your face. What if the first time you smile and next time you laugh then next you frown? :-p

Kidding! But it's true that they don't wanna see to many differences of 1 face.

That's where Muslims save a lot of money on photo's.

ngattt wrote:

I read somewhere, if you want to overcome a sadness, you must face up to it! If you are afraid to make friends with strangers, just make friends as much as you can . Many guys here will help you.

BTW, I saw your picture, I think you are my friend !

Yeah!!! U r right, I'm the person YOu talked to when we were taking a task like a police last sunday ) That day made me interested, btw, knowing you is a chance to make my life funnier

Jaitch wrote:

Your post title: "How to overcome many mental obstacles in communication" is revealing yet you barely describe the challenges in the post.

Part of today's business life is achieving balance. Before the InterNet, if you remember it, work stayed at work and pleasure stayed at home.

With the ubiquitous smart handset, work intrudes every waking, and sometimes sleeping, moment of the day. You can't get away from 'it'. Learn not to answer work related messages or calls outside work hours.

Having a job you don't enjoy is a big downer, too. I have been lucky in getting jobs I enjoyed, makes the day go faster.

Another thing - what is your body language saying about you? On the dating web sites I moderate you see women radiating unhappiness, or signalling 'stay away'. Crossed arms is a 'keep away' sign in all cultures, a look of unhappiness is not a welcoming sign, either.

Often a simple Hi! with a smile is a way to break the ice. People are always interested in talking about themselves and all it takes is a simple question from yourself. Pets are also conversation openers.

Hi tks for ur advice

ngattt wrote:

The first time I saw OP, she wasn't open, didn't smile, a little strict to others . But I talked to her much, and she is more friendly

Girl, you are pretty, and have nice smile. Try to smile whenever you can ! There are many guys around us, they are very friendly, willing to help, but if you are always not friendly, they don't dare talk to you. After I attended the English class in this year, I knew many people. Once I had a problem with my motorbike, I was trying to overcome the problem, but I couldn't. Suddenly a guy passed over me, and he said: oh Nga, wait, wait, let me help you!

I've just meet this guy some months ago, he and I drank beer with my English teacher. At that time, he said to me: I really want to see you, because many people talk about you, you are the only person who can invite our English teacher drink beer ! Just some kind words, but I felt happy haha ...

Oh, your English teacher may be the same person who taught me, his name is Danny, right? He teachs very well, however, I don't get in touch with him I learnt in B2 class. it ended, and I couldn't practise speaking anymore

ngattt wrote:

Read this book: "Never eat alone".

"Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are individuals that can go it alone." 鈥揗argaret Wheatley



You can find Vietnamese version on Internet .



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I have already got it with Vietnamese version. It is very necessary for s.o to look for a relationship, specially in doing business. However, I wanna practise more, not reading any more

ngattt wrote:

This is orchid from my papa's garden. Hope you always "t瓢啤i nh瓢 hoa" , don't know how to translate this to English .

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I love all kinds of orchids, specially orchids are from the forest. Tks for ur advice

Fairie wrote:

Oh, your English teacher may be the same person who taught me, his name is D, right? He teachs very well, however, I don't get in touch with him I learnt in B2 class. it ended, and I couldn't practise speaking anymore

No, not only him. But don't public his name here聽 . I don't want he knows that we pay compliment for him, ha ha (the another teacher gave me a link to this forum, so I thought they would come here sometimes ). I聽 was a "individual" student, because I only "decry" them (not only him), want to make them angry always聽
I still keep in touch, because when someone needs translate something, he needs my help .

ngattt wrote:

Fairie wrote:

Oh, your English teacher may be the same person who taught me, his name is D, right? He teachs very well, however, I don't get in touch with him I learnt in B2 class. it ended, and I couldn't practise speaking anymore

No, not only him. But don't public his name here聽 . I don't want he knows that we pay compliment for him, ha ha (the another teacher gave me a link to this forum, so I thought they would come here sometimes ). I聽 was a "individual" student, because I only "decry" them (not only him), want to make them angry always聽
I still keep in touch, because when someone needs translate something, he needs my help .

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welcome to the love boat.
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''ok Tattoo,I can see it''

Ranger6 wrote:

read this it could be helpful for you:
expatriateconnection.com/expats-loneliness-can-make-sick/聽 聽 聽 聽

Good luck

Thanks for your advice

witty12 wrote:

Australian聽 cannot smile for passport pics either. Why pick on Chinese and Vietnamese..

I'm thinking the 'passport' comment was intended as 'tongue in cheek' ....

Nobody in any country is allowed to smile in passport photos - or mug shots.