Being in Netherlands for more than a year now (as of Feb'17) this is my learning so far. Please be informed that these facts and figures could vary from person to person based on their lifestyle, income and city/town.
Our life in Den Haag was fairly nice compared to Leeuwarden where where we moved here 3 months back. Though I don't see much difference in 'cost of living', our style in purchasing and consuming products has changed to a great margin.
If I am to answer in the order, it would be like this:
* Real Estate: Renting a 2 bedroom apartment in Den Haag was around €1200 to 1500 excluding Electricity, Gas, water, water filtering, garbage and sewer taxes (!) depending on semi furnished to furnished apartments. Our landlord was a kind couple who accepted all repair and replacement works at the house, but you cannot expect the same from other landlords. In Leeuwarden our $h!tty landlord won't even fix the bathroom door but charges €950 per month including central heating but excluding Electrical, Gas, water, water filtering, garbage and sewer taxes (!).
* Transport: Den Haag was perfect in terms of public transport and entertainment options. You have super punctual trams and buses almost everywhere. Where as in Leeuwarden it is 'not so punctual' but fair 'buses only' public transport. But the train station is great! It goes without saying, you HAVE TO own a bicycle for travelling 3 - 5 kms distance so you can save some money. Since we used trams and buses almost only for weekend outings, nearby getaways or some serious shopping we use to recharge our OV card for about €15 per month.
* Food expense: Now, this can totally differ from family to family (or a person to person) based on their ethnicity and lifestyle. Since we couldn't indulge ourselves in typical dutch meal (baked potatoes, veggies and meat?

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) we had to rely on Turkish, Indian and Russian shops for rice, pulses, spices & other essentials. Amsterdam, Den Haag, Rotterdam, Utrecht , Zwolle and other bigger (or expat populated) towns has lot of these aforementioned shops to buy expatriate groceries of your choice. For a 3 person family you can expect anywhere between €150 to 200 including occasional pizza and subway treats

* Medical: I never happened to visit a doctor yet for any serious illness so far and and definitely don't want to as their fees are pretty expensive. Especially the dental ones! Better watch what you eat, where you go and invest in some good winter gear!
* No idea about fuel charges, nor having an idea to own a vehicle.
* Power: Electricity & gas companies has a different collection system here. To give you a basic idea: You have to have the meter readings at the time you rent the house to register with the power company of your choice & they bill you for a year in advance (!) based on your meter reading numbers. Basically they look for 'average consumption' pattern to charge you. Now, if the previous tenant or owner was partying hard then your initial payment might burn a hole not just in your pocket but your entire pajama! But not to worry, they will give you the excess money back at the end of your contract, which is usually a year !!
* Internet & TV: One of the best perks you can enjoy in this lovely country. A basic internet/data plan with basic TV channels starts from €40 with good speed and unlimited data download. Some ISPs offer attractive data plans or electronic items as joining bonus. I got a decent size tablet for free! Mobile charges: I recharge for about €20 a month for 1000 free minutes and 1GB free data.
* Lunch: Get up early, cook and pack your lunch to work if you want to eat the next day. I mean it. Restaurants here are very expensive and the wheat bread or croissant will not be enough for your lunch if you plan to work for 12 hrs. Buying your groceries wholesale will save you enough money.
* Snacks and Beverages: Not a fan of the dutch black coffee but totally in love with the quality they offer! A basic cappuccino or a black coffee can vary anywhere between €1.50, 4.50 and even €9.50 depending on how big and bright their outlet is. I would prefer a 'on the go' outlets at train stations than a fancy restaurant.
* Fitness: Gym and swimming pools in Netherlands are great. They are fairly hygienic and well maintained. A friend of mine joined a swimming class for €60 for 3 months and paid relatively the same amount for Gym. But it may vary from town to town.
Wrap up: Overall, Holland is not a poor man's country. If you want to live here then you better get a decent wage job and try to settle down in a less crowded city/town so your everyday expenses will be manageable. Go fishing for ultra cheap grocery, utility and stationary stores every now and then. Trust me, on a longer run they will save you a great deal of money and will make you life a little easier. Shops like Action, trekpleister and similar kinds often come up with discounts/offer and combos. I actively monitor them by their free advertisement subscriptions. Thrift shops and weekend markets are your best bet.
Do not buy new household or furniture. Try the second hand shops first. From decent condition mattress to a working condition oven they have something for everyone. Few companies offer kitchenware (fridge, washing machine and oven) for rent as low as €6 to €30 PM depending on the size of it. The dutch has a commendable habit of keeping the furniture/household they no longer want outside their house so that the needy can make use of it! So scan your neighborhood every first week of every month for free stuff !!! Websites like Markplats are a great place to find what you need.
Last but not least: In a country that has heavy tax laws; If you ain't thrifty you ain't gonna survive.
Regards,
Ravi.
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