Hi Ex-pat colleagues in Poland,
I hail from Toronto Canada, a warm hello to you.聽 I was originally scheduled to stay one month here, and return on March 27, but.........
I was given an opportunity by LOT, with the Canadian Embassy鈥檚 liaison, to return on a special charter on April 3.聽 Given the rising shutdown and relatively greater spread of the virus back home, I opted to stay instead for an indeterminate longer time.聽
A shout out to the embassy staff, and to LOT, for diligently reaching out to me with several phone calls.聽 Having said that though, I caution my ex-pat compatriots to never rely too heavily on the consular service to get you out of a jam.聽 This is not the first time I have been 鈥渟tranded鈥� (I do use the word lightly here; I love it in Poland), and it鈥檚 not the first time the Canadian foreign service has reached out to me.聽
From my previous experience (in a war zone, no less; I was a little younger and a lot more adventurous then) I know that our embassies abroad have very little influence, and of course no authority.聽 Just read about it on the appropriate web sites, with their cautions.聽 The bottom line is that you are on your own when it really counts.聽 So don鈥檛 ever count on being rescued.聽 Just ask those couple of Canadians being held in China because of the Huawei deal.聽 Again, kudos for the embassy staff here for their efforts, but I also know they would never ever be able to make demands in my favour.聽
So I鈥檓 still here in Poland, I鈥檓 keeping my ear to the ground and a finger in the air; it still looks pretty good from where I am, relative to Toronto.聽 I do have family to get back to, but my job there, like many people鈥檚, is on hold for now.聽 I am fortunate to be staying in a rural area, with a couple of Poles whom I know really well.聽 Away from crowds, and 鈥榚mbedded鈥� or 鈥榦n the ground鈥� as I prefer to say.聽 Whenever a traveller is safe amongst locals, there is actually quite a lot of social upheaval one could survive.聽 Even if I were in a city right now it would be fine, provided that I were somehow integrated into a milieu.聽 Maybe rooming with a family, or even just renting a room in a small neighbourhood in a town.聽
The point is to be under the radar a bit, separate from regular hotels with other tourists (those are closed now anyway).聽 One exception I have found is the hostels.聽 I鈥檝e been in Okie Dokie in Warsaw for and extended time, as well as Grandpa鈥檚 in Wroclaw.聽 I recommend both, though I know there are lots of comparable places.聽 I鈥檇 go to either for a visit now if I could.聽 **I also know there are places in the world where it is not safe to be 鈥榚mbedded鈥� - these places I avoid.
And how do current events affect my future plans for returning to Poland?聽 It only reinforces them, I want to really spend quality time getting to know this wonderful land and its people.聽 Poland has known challenges, and it doesn鈥檛 seem to be worse off in its spirit; that says a lot in itself.
聽 I will learn more and more (even the language!!) and enjoy what鈥檚 at the heart of being am ex-pat.聽 We all come from a tradition in the West written of by Hemingway and Graham Greene, but we don鈥檛 have the hardships they described.聽 I travelled and worked abroad for several years before I did the settle-down-and-raise-kids thing, now I鈥檓 ready to continue moving and grooving (please excuse my Boomer vocab.)
Many people everywhere are suffering now, one of the reasons I do need to get home is for my very elderly mother - but I won鈥檛 even be able to see her, even after my 14-day quarantine.聽 It will still be the daily phone calls after I get back.聽 And my family has it lucky compared to most.聽 But as my almost centenarian mom says, 鈥渏ust taking it one day at a time鈥� will get us there.聽 And that is the road out in front of us always, expats or otherwise.
Cheers, Jamie
