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Yes people need a chance and an aid even a simple question can be like gold to another persons need 

Complaining will never stop ,!

Complaining is a way of life for some  people. They have been negative for so long that their eyes are closed to anything positive.

Their glass is always half empty, mine is  always half full.

Mevin22 wrote:

Complaining will never stop ,!

Hi Mevin, 

Yes, you are right.
There is an old, simple rule about talking: if somebody does not have anything good to say, then why talk?

And another rule: don't make your problem my problem! ...
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In fact, I am not worry with people that are complaining.
I am satisfied with you, that are here, taking part of a different kind of world, a place that have people taking care about others.
I believe that if we build a  good place, with good sense we will attract people with the same sense.

Adauto wrote:

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I believe that if we build a  good place, with good sense we will attract people with the same sense.

Hello Adauto, 
Your belief is based on one of the major secrets of the human mind: The Law Of Attraction.
It is found in nature but few people have time to observe nature and even fewer to understand what they see and even much, much fewer to apply the learnt lessons.
A piece of gross dirt attracts nasty big green flies which do nothing good and only feed themselves on dirt for a parasitic life.Ìý They carry infections.
A flower attracts bees which work to produce honey first and which leave having their meals for last.

We, humans, have a choice to stay as dirt or become the flower ...Ìý
People attract what they are.

John C. wrote:

Adauto wrote:

......
I believe that if we build a  good place, with good sense we will attract people with the same sense.

Hello Adauto, 
Your belief is based on one of the major secrets of the human mind: The Law Of Attraction.
It is found in nature but few people have time to observe nature and even fewer to understand what they see and even much, much fewer to apply the learnt lessons.
A piece of gross dirt attracts nasty big green flies which do nothing good and only feed themselves on dirt for a parasitic life.Ìý They carry infections.
A flower attracts bees which work to produce honey first and which leave having their meals for last.

We, humans, have a choice to stay as dirt or become the flower ...Ìý
People attract what they are.

Hello John,
I agree with you.
Certainly this site is a good place because people are taking care to ensure that anyone that arrives here be sure to receive good feelings. These attitudes always attract good things.

Adauto wrote:

John C. wrote:

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People attract what they are.

Hello John,
I agree with you.
Certainly this site is a good place because people are taking care to ensure that anyone that arrives here be sure to receive good feelings. These attitudes always attract good things.

Hello Adauto, 
Thank you. I already knew when I wrote my post that you would agree with me or I would not have written it.
Just for accuracy, I re-phrase: 'People are walking magnets who attract only what they are. The motto 'Opposites attract.' is the exception to the rule, not the rule.Ìý

By the way, how do you visualize / explain the Law Of Attraction?

John C. wrote:

Adauto wrote:

John C. wrote:

.....
People attract what they are.

Hello John,
I agree with you.
Certainly this site is a good place because people are taking care to ensure that anyone that arrives here be sure to receive good feelings. These attitudes always attract good things.

Hello Adauto, 
Thank you. I already knew when I wrote my post that you would agree with me or I would not have written it.
Just for accuracy, I re-phrase: 'People are walking magnets who attract only what they are. The motto 'Opposites attract.' is the exception to the rule, not the rule. 

By the way, how do you visualize / explain the Law Of Attraction?

I don´t know how to explain this law that is so known and spoken, but what I know is that I have met a lot of different people and no one explained me how this things happen.
But I am sure that we have to do our part.

Adauto wrote:

I don´t know how to explain this law that is so known and spoken, but what I know is that I have met a lot of different people and no one explained me how this things happen.
But I am sure that we have to do our part.

Hi Adauto, 
It's too long a theory to explain but it all boils down to mental energies or lack thereof.
Yes, everybody plays his part and does his best but in the highly competitive world we live in, most 'best' is not good enough.
Congratulations and thanks for such polite thread! ...   

Here I have a place where I don´t need to use my every day weapons. 
I have been well received and I want to help others.
I feel good and all of this is enough for me.
Here I do not feel  the highly competitive world we live in
It is great

Adauto wrote:

Here I have a place where I don´t need to use my every day weapons. 
I have been well received and I want to help others.
I feel good and all of this is enough for me.
Here I do not feel  the highly competitive world we live in
It is great

Is the forum a place where you don't feel the highly competitive world we live in?
How can that be? 
Adauto, this is not so. 
Oh, my, we Earthians compete with one another even when we sleep.  Here in this forum we compete for the 'Post Of The Year' (which I, John C., invented  never forget that  ), for the nicest topics which bring the highest number of viewers and the most intelligent replies, for writing the most thoughtful posts, for best wording and spelling as close to Oxford English as possible, for providing the best advice to potential expats, for making the most memorable cyber-experience to whosoever reads, for spicing our posts with the most comic remarks, a.s.o.
Here we show and test our very best.

I know there is a shark species where Mother Nature allowed for the fetuses to eat one another while their pregnant mother carries them and only the winner comes out, which is nothing compared to what actually happens to us anywhere, in or out of this forum.

Adauto, you are old enough to know we, especially men, always compete.  What matters is to do it in style. Agree? 

this site is nice and i hope to help make some improvement in it

John C. wrote:

Adauto wrote:

Here I have a place where I don´t need to use my every day weapons. 
I have been well received and I want to help others.
I feel good and all of this is enough for me.
Here I do not feel  the highly competitive world we live in
It is great

Is the forum a place where you don't feel the highly competitive world we live in?
How can that be? 
Adauto, this is not so. 
Oh, my, we Earthians compete with one another even when we sleep.  Here in this forum we compete for the 'Post Of The Year' (which I, John C., invented  never forget that  ), for the nicest topics which bring the highest number of viewers and the most intelligent replies, for writing the most thoughtful posts, for best wording and spelling as close to Oxford English as possible, for providing the best advice to potential expats, for making the most memorable cyber-experience to whosoever reads, for spicing our posts with the most comic remarks, a.s.o.
Here we show and test our very best.

I know there is a shark species where Mother Nature allowed for the fetuses to eat one another while their pregnant mother carries them and only the winner comes out, which is nothing compared to what actually happens to us anywhere, in or out of this forum.

Adauto, you are old enough to know we, especially men, always compete.  What matters is to do it in style. Agree? 

I appreciate your style direct, without turns.
But I don´t agree because I am no in competition.
I am here because I feel well. I like to post, talk and discuss..
I think that I can learn a lot at the same time that I teach.
But I respect your opinion.

Karimah wrote:

this site is nice and i hope to help make some improvement in it

Welcome Karimah

Adauto wrote:

I appreciate your style direct, without turns.
But I don´t agree because I am no in competition.
I am here because I feel well. I like to post, talk and discuss..
I think that I can learn a lot at the same time that I teach.
But I respect your opinion.

Hello Adauto, 
Here is the link for the intrauterine shark cannibalism
There are many videos on the Net which you can find by yahooing or googling "embryonic cannibalism".
Congrats and thanks to the Internet for enlightening those of us who want to be enlightened.

Now, please excuse me, in 1 hour and a half the stock markets open and I must swim with another type of sharks who feed not on people's money, but much more on human stupidity ... 

John C. wrote:

Adauto wrote:

I appreciate your style direct, without turns.
But I don´t agree because I am no in competition.
I am here because I feel well. I like to post, talk and discuss..
I think that I can learn a lot at the same time that I teach.
But I respect your opinion.

Hello Adauto, 
Here is the link for the intrauterine shark cannibalism
There are many videos on the Net which you can find by yahooing or googling "embryonic cannibalism".
Congrats and thanks to the Internet for enlightening those of us who want to be enlightened.

Now, please excuse me, in 1 hour and a half the stock markets open and I must swim with another type of sharks who feed not on people's money, but much more on human stupidity ... 

John, I am out of this scene for a long time but I can see that you like.
Good fight, good work and a well earned money for you.
I will be with my family, talking about the day and planing our day tomorrow.

How many places you can taking part and get so many friends?
Where you can go and solve doubts so fast and with so much quality?
How often you can discuss and be able to treat with differents points of view?
I get it.