relationships
fantasy will only breed regret and remorse. responsibility will open up new doors of possibility.
people change..sometimes to good side..but if the person was a freak once, he still might be freaky and crazy.. :)and then you will run away from him again..
Best luck
devrim.sahin wrote:Don't make a mistake twice. Take lessons from your mistakes.
you are so right about this
we know that people will never change... it s better to end and have a new life, like me)))))))
sweetnovember wrote:Well, No one can escape fate. !!!! even our choices are destined so enjoy what you have now in hand. As for those who comes from the past. I believe that dead people never get alive.
Totally agree with u, as its all a matter of destiny, we can love or even hate we can also choose our love but we can't keep it forever as its God' will!
So its better for us to enjoy our new life and stop searching as we will find a bad choice definitely as almost most of us already did and life is short , so no time to regret more:)
Its better to delete any past whether it was good or bad clean or DIRTY and just to live our life normal and happy from now on 
Life goes on and as long as good decent friends around you, then be sure that your angel will come to you soon I hope.
PS: after any one goes through bad experience we must have a lesson from the past and last one and try not to destroy him/her infront people without a reason as its a reputation as what goes around comes a round to us!
Start your life and be happy without hate being chained coz inside all of us is a clean clear respectful person.
Hope we all had a lesson.
Ramadan Kareem
purplelilychick wrote:For me the true love of my life let me a year ago and now from time to time we talk on the phone or sometimes meet with each other, and everytime I see him I know how much Im hurting myself because we are not going to be together for more than one or two days but I keep thinking about the great 2 years we had and always forget about the last 6 months which were not so great but I guess when you love someone you always remember the good times, now Im trying my best to move on and have met a few people I like but he knows and I know all he has to do is call and I will come which pisses me off!!! so Im now moving country but to be honest if he asked me tomorrow to marry him I would say yes as he is the love of my life and I still think he is perfect for me but actually I hate that I even think that because I know there is much better out there for me but I guess until you meet that new person you always think about the old,, so heres hoping my new job and country will bring new handsome, fun and interesting men!!!!!!
Rachel,
Don聮t try to search for love as it is hard. It will hit your way suddently , without waiting and without expectation. Love is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe
Don聮t try to search for love as it is hard. It will hit your way suddently , without waiting and without expectation. Love is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe
Thank you Daisy for this but I have to say Im not looking for love... I was simply saying that sometimes its hard to move on when in the past you have loved someone very much....but IM excited about moving to Cairo soon and moving on with my life and having fun....
sweetnovember wrote:It will hit聽 your way suddently , without waiting and without expectation. Love is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.聽
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.聽 It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe
:top:
But all you can do about love is accept when it comes and release when it leaves you. Mankind is yet too weak to defeat and control love.
sweetnovember wrote:purplelilychick wrote:For me the true love of my life let me a year ago and now from time to time we talk on the phone or sometimes meet with each other, and everytime I see him I know how much Im hurting myself because we are not going to be together for more than one or two days but I keep thinking about the great 2 years we had and always forget about the last 6 months which were not so great but I guess when you love someone you always remember the good times, now Im trying my best to move on and have met a few people I like but he knows and I know all he has to do is call and I will come which pisses me off!!! so Im now moving country but to be honest if he asked me tomorrow to marry him I would say yes as he is the love of my life and I still think he is perfect for me but actually I hate that I even think that because I know there is much better out there for me but I guess until you meet that new person you always think about the old,, so heres hoping my new job and country will bring new handsome, fun and interesting men!!!!!!
Rachel,
Don聮t try to search for love as it is hard. It will hit your way suddently , without waiting and without expectation. Love is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe
Impressive, you expressed your feelings in a very nice way.I really liked it, but this kind of love only exists in utopia, you can rarely find this kind of love nowadays, because most of the people became selfish,and love is the opposite of selfishness, love means sacrifice.
Also you said soething that I like which is:
Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it
I believe we have to do that in order not to hurt ourselves
Nowadays, you have to think before falling in love
And concerning the title of the topic I believe that the first love is the strongest one ever and it rarely comes again, but we couldn't go back to it because life goes on:)we just gain experiences from it
But anyway I do really like ur way in expressing your feelings, and I appreciate it so much
Really I hope to see you soon
Cheers
Saluda wrote:I think you will find that your first choice is the right choice
Almost always, one's first choice will turn out to be the worst choice !!!
sweetnovember wrote:Thanks dear semsema, you are so sweet. Everyday I feel more eager to see you and to know you more. Hope we can be friends. I think we have some common traits and similar point of view; as we are both are graduates of Cairo university, English literature;). I'll do my best to come on Thursday.
Dear Sweet Novmber, yeah I think we have alot in common and I do really wanna see you so much
It is very nice that both of us are from the same faculty;) as it is something mutual between us;)
And yeah please please come to Thursday outing ba2a, you will enjoy fun and we will have alot of things to talk about:)
It is really nice talking to you and I look forward to seeing you soon
Cheers
Eventhough it was decades ago...Yes I would...fate brought us together and part us out-life goes on and wouldn't want to change that.
I think marriage is a big commitment, I am 190% against arrange marriages, its a total suicide special if the are kidds involved.
the biggist mistake of ny life, never judge a book by its cover. waw I feel good now I ve got it out of my chest.
yassmin wrote:if you return to the past will you marry the same woman or will you marry the same guy?
Can't return now, to late.
No, I would not rescue the thankless little viper. Live and learn.
My lesson learned "Prenuptial agreements" are a fine thing. 
How do I know a different way of life/partner could have been better or worse? Logically not predictable.
yet again if trust which is like a paper sheet is crumbled, it can never be perfect again...
every relationship leaves a scar along with its lessons,
I believe the less scars the better...
In that sense enjoy life as is .. coz it's not really manageable
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