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Hi and welcome to the forum HumBhoolay!

I hope other members will be able to give you some useful advices soon

Regards
Armand

I just dont get it.....Noone has anythiing to say at all!?!?!?! I thought people would be more helpful :'(

A little more patience HumBhoolay ...

You should give other members the time to read your post!

Regards
Armand

hi,

People in Pakistan are modern and at the same time religious.

Spend some tiome on net and google things.

Cover you whole body if your fiance's family is orthodox if you wear Pakistani traditional clother (Salwar Kameez) they might like it.

greet them in muslim traditional way

as-Sal芒m Alaikum (聯God聮s Peace be upon you聰)

wa-laikum as-Sal芒m (聯And God聮s Peace be upon you聰) (always respond with this if someone greets you with Sal芒m Alaikum)

Whenever one speaks with the intention of doing something or having something happening, one always appends it with the saying insh芒聮 Ll芒h, 聯if it please All芒h聰 or 聯God willing.聰 So, for example, 聯Hopefully we will meet again, insh芒聮 Ll芒h.聰 聯I am going to London tomorrow, insh芒聮 Ll芒h.聰

When one feels admiration for a person or thing: Ma sha聮 Ll芒h, 聯it is as All芒h has pleased.聰

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When one speaks with gratitude over some positive happening, one might add, al .Hamdu li 聮Ll芒h, 聯Praise be to God聰 (similar to the Hebrew Alleluia), or All芒h hu Akbar (聯God is Superlatively Great.聰) These sacred phrases can also be used when saying farewell to anyone.

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When receiving a gift from another or receiving any good, one thanks the bestower of the gift with the phrase:

Jaz芒-ka-Ll芒h (聯May God reward thee聰) or Jaz芒-ka-Ll芒h u khair芒 (聯May God give you good reward聰).

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Subh芒na-Ll芒h (聯Glory to God聰) is used when one has to express contrition over one's imperfections or errors. This phrase is also used when one sees another person making a mistake.



Yar.hamu-ka-Ll芒h (聯May God have mercy on you聰) is a prayer for someone in distress.

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Inn芒 li-Ll芒hi wa inn芒 ilai-hi r芒ji'un (聯Surely we are God聮s and to Him we shall return聰) is said whenever one is informed of the death of a person or anyone聮s major loss.

if you google some more about muslim culture you will get a lot of links. But to my advice just give them some time as its a total shock for your in laws as they might be thinking and planning something else through out you fiance's life if they have agreed that means they are open minded and educated people. Be open to adapt and learn.

one more suggestion find some pakistani people on facebook and ask them about culture they will be able to assist you better. in any case i will inbox you some of my pakistani friends so you can add them on face book.

All the best. be yourself dont try to do things just to impress them. be open to them and say you are ready to adapt just they should give you some time i am sure they will.

Any luck HumBhoolay?聽 I am temporarily in Islamabad and am wondering if anyone knows of any thing going on.

Thanks!

Hi Humbolay

This is sajjad from Malaysia, a new member of the forum, I lives in Malaysia but i am a "Karachi Boy" by birth, spend my childhood their,, very often i visit Karachi, Now my visit is due on in the 3rd of July,, just keep in touch,, lets see if聽 we can meet over their,,, Take care ,, Cheers