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MaroBautista wrote:

Is it possible for the situation to go the other way around? Like he would be the once to visit you here?

She said that he did visit her in the Philippines. Presumably she now wants to see what Norway is like.

It is a sensible thing before getting engaged or too involved.

Moaz Naveed wrote:

Contact with me i give u all detail of Norway..

Have you done this visa to Norway yourself from the Philippines?

It's best to share the info on the forum so everyone who is interested can see, and maybe be helped with the info.

Ccchapo wrote:

If he only visited you once for four weeks how well do you know him. Now he wants you to spend your money to visit him. This story of NAV. sounds suspicious, maybe I am being cynical but please tread very carefully. The history of filipina/foreigner relationships is littered with such stories as yours and when you arrive there he has never seen you before and he has no-where for you to stay, you are stuck because you have no money to get home. Please research these stories on the internet before you get hurt. I hope I am wrong. Just trying to give helpful advice.

It's actually very common for it to happen that way, a short visit from the foreigner first.聽 But normally the man will be paying for the next trip and a return ticket is near enough compulsory on a visitor visa.

With the sponsor having made the guarantees, I doubt they could then turn round and say they don't know the person.聽

In isolated occasions that could happen, but it is not something I have heard about myself.
But if it did happen, the local Embassy would help, and the Sponsorship support would come into effect enforced by the Immigration department of the country involved.

GDT wrote:

Wow...I might get angry responses over this post, but read it first and look up the medical websites dealing with long term depression. This guy has not worked in 10 years because he is too depressed to function in ANY work environment!!!!! And she wants to marry him? Is she serious?

Severely depressed individuals can not be there -for anyone but themselves... They are not able to give you what YOU deserve in attention, compassion, tenderness,聽 understanding nor聽 LOVE, when their lives are one big bundle of pain and depression. Do you understand ?

These are the common signs of depression.聽 Remember after 10 years this guy is long term. The following is from a Medical link about men with depression. I also called a Doctor relative of mine (mental health professional) to verify this opinion... He laughted.. Says codependency is a big problem.. Look it up.

Here is a statement from a Canadian Mental Health site explaining the 3 most common signs of depression in men.

Men are more likely to deny his feelings, hide them from himself and others, or try to mask them with other behaviors. The three most common signs of depression in men are:

Physical pain. Sometimes depression in men shows up as physical symptoms鈥攕uch as backache, frequent headaches, sleep problems, sexual dysfunction, or digestive disorders鈥攖hat don鈥檛 respond to normal treatment.

Anger. This could range from irritability, sensitivity to criticism, or a loss of your sense of humor to road rage, a short temper, or even violence. Some men become abusive, controlling, verbally or physically abusive to wives, children, or other loved ones.聽

Reckless behavior. A man suffering from depression may start exhibiting escapist or risky behavior. This could mean pursuing dangerous sports, driving recklessly, or engaging in unsafe sex. You might drink too much, abuse drugs, or gamble compulsively.

Yea. All the signs a dysfunctional woman looks for in a new relationship...... If you are already married to someone and they get sick physically or mentally, that's a different聽 聽and much more聽 complex story.

Don't ask for help screwing up your聽 life , on a website full of strangers, ..go to a local mental health practitioner and ask why YOU don't see the problem in this scenario.

Wow.

I agree with you sir. He is there for a reason. If he can't even help himself to get out of his situation, how she expect him to attend for her needs. I think our OP here should assess first the situation before venturing into something that is very risky.