Tells me I'm her husband

3POSTS

5 years ago

is this true I had her move in with me because she wasn't聽 working and her mother was helping her she worked for 2 weeks and quit now I'm thinking about asking her to leave Puerta plata聽 confusion

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planner Dominican Republic Expert

17773POSTS

5 years ago

There will be a lot of questions needing answers in order to help you.

I suggest you speak with a good lawyer and protect yourself immediately.聽 Sometimes being a nice guy can backfire!聽聽See a lawyer right away and do not tell her or anyone you are doing that!

I can recommend a good lawyer if you don't know one!

Michita Contributor

127POSTS

5 years ago

Not after 2 weeks you are not her husband, but you definitely want to move her out, lock your place and take a vacation somewhere after calling a lawyer as Planner recommends. She's obviously interested in keeping you around for financial reasons, don't fool yourself into believing anything else.

Memo1234 New member

6POSTS

5 years ago

YOU ARE AN ATM!! 90% of the time. In any country. LOL. Just get her out. Put new locks and surveilance system you can monitor. Get out of town for at least a month.聽聽if you dont own the place.聽 MOVE!!聽聽 I wouldnt involve an attorney. You do that and then she will get one and then you are the only ATM in the mix!!聽 And. DONT EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!!!聽 Rescuers are victems!!聽 Dont be a tender dick!!

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warmstrong92404 New member

3POSTS

5 years ago

That's what I planned聽 to do July 17th flying to California聽 for 2 months thank you for confirming for me what I already knew thank you

Memo1234 New member

6POSTS

5 years ago

As soon as possible!!

Guest123089 Guest

0POSTS

5 years ago

I have so many questions too.聽 She worked for 2 weeks then quit?聽 Worked for you or someone else?

Sounds like 鈥測our wife鈥� found you and you鈥檙e going to solve all her problems.

Why would you take a person in if you鈥檙e not comfortable with them 鈥渇alling in love鈥�?聽 What were you trying to do?

Totally normal for people to call you their husband or wife and have you solve their life.聽 Try working for the Consulate where people list their spouse in their paperwork but they have not legally married.聽 It鈥檚 overstepping a boundary in a place where boundaries do not exist.聽 People will take and take until you stop them.

Don鈥檛 ask her to leave.聽 TELL her to leave.聽

Anyi, tu te vas a ir hoy.聽聽Adios.

Change the locks.