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We stopped exchanging Christmas presents with siblings a very long time ago as we're all either established or retired and don't want or need the same useless things year after year.

In our immediate family (parents and adult children), we also haven't been exchanging Christmas presents for about 25 years now.聽 Instead, all of us give each other gifts throughout the years -- items in the recipients (year round) wish lists, and things which we know would make them happy.聽 The gifts are never silly as none of us care for objects that collect dust around the house, nor are they treasured because of the price tags.

Some of the gifts we gave or received in the last 25 years were:

- entire bibliography of an author in paperback (then later, in digital format);聽 聽
- paying off a debt;
- suitcases;
- photo editing program;
- hydroponic plants and herbs;
- espresso machine;
- VPN subscription;
- airline tickets;
- wine subscription;
- cell phone plan;
- quality time (mother-daughter day, chocolate day, photo walk day ...)
- monthly transportation passes

My children carried that practice into their marriages, and none of their spouses/SOs has ever uttered a complaint about gift-free Christmas.

If it is for you about exchanging gifts dollar for dollar you are missing the purpose. Also when it is too much effort to come up with something special for that special person or family member.
We are also members of the "have everything club". The beer fridge is crammed full of daffodil bulbs who are happily chilling. Beats another diamond:) It does not take much to make someone's eyes sparkle. Try it. SO handed out chocolate Christmas calendars at work instead of the anticipated cards with initial. Total success across the board. Last year SO got socks. Yes, socks but with little critters on it which are not only his last name but also his totem.

The one exception is if I know someone collects something specific, and then if I find a neat example of whatever it is, then that makes a good gift. But overall I don't go looking for 'gifty' things that have no practical use. The best example of that is advanced tools so I am spending the money on useful things.

You could always plant a tree for someone. That is a gift that truly keeps giving.

We don't make gifts any surprise anymore. I and my sister are asking each other's wishlist so that we get what we want not what we don't want or need.