To marry or not to marry? that's the question
I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend,
And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and men who are either engaged or have girlfriend and it seems like that i'm happier, wealthier, fitter and less stressed than them ! I came to the realization that i don't want the burdensome weights of a relationship i don't have time for this triviality my life is short.
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I am not planning to get married, but whatever I think now flies out the door the second I fall in love.
Affairs / infidelity / cheating ( the worst one)
Sexual Problems
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Bored in or with Your Relationship or ...
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Domestic violence, which includes verbal as well as physical abuse
聽 Knowing you should not have got married in the first place! (regrets)
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Lack of support
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Poor division of and / or one-sided lack of responsibility for chores and tasks.聽 It is not always women who complain about this relationship problem!
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the question is :Dont you have a sexual desire ,
if you dont the suggestion is : you should see a doctor.
your probleme in this short life is inside the question.
sexual desire , marriage , human being
FOR normal peopole its ALL linked together in one circle
Abes677 wrote:i have a question and a suggestion
the question is :Dont you have a sexual desire ,
if you dont the suggestion is : you should see a doctor.
your probleme in this short life is inside the question.
i don't know if that's ironic but it is believed that wives refuse to have s3x with their own husbands most of the times...
Abes677 wrote:It is for this reason that a wife is bound to fulfill her husband聮s sexual desires so as to prevent him form straying.
And not the other way around?
Abes677 wrote:i will give you islam opinion about this case wich is also my opinion:Islam encourages and insists on chastity and fidelity. Islam prohibits and condemn illicit sexual relations, extra-maritial affairs, pre-marriage sex, fornication, adultery, prostitution, pornography and promiscuity. It is for this reason that a wife is bound to fulfill her husband聮s sexual desires so as to prevent him form straying.
Salam Bro.,
Please don't get me wrong.
I invite you not to involve religion in your discussions on the site (which you are doing mostly) because this is your "own personal believe". In addition, please stop saying the phrase "Islam says" as you are just translating "literally" from Arabic to English, which gives very weird impressions about Islam concepts and doesn't explain them correctly.
Also be advised that such weird impressions, which other members might get from your translations, will drag you into more debates "as the one below" which you are not up to.
Thanks for considering my words,
MO.
Primadonna wrote:Abes677 wrote:It is for this reason that a wife is bound to fulfill her husband聮s sexual desires so as to prevent him form straying.
And not the other way around?
HaileyinHongKong wrote:What does sexual desire have to do with marriage?
I got married when I realised there would come a day when I wasn't handsome enough to pull a bird so I'd never get a bonk.
Any other questions?
Abes677 wrote:i will give you islam opinion about this case wich is also my opinion:Islam encourages and insists on chastity and fidelity. Islam prohibits and condemn illicit sexual relations, extra-maritial affairs, pre-marriage sex, fornication, adultery, prostitution, pornography and promiscuity. It is for this reason that a wife is bound to fulfill her husband聮s sexual desires so as to prevent him form straying.
Yes, I gave up a lot when I converted.
not to marry
to marry
not to marry
to marry
not to marry ............
"veeeeeeeeery confusing"




faithandHope wrote:I feel sad for your post, mainly that you feel love and marriage is trivial....I am so sure you will not entertain the same beliefs when God allows you to meet someone that touches your soul and opens your eyes in ways you don't see now. Life alone is very difficult. Sharing life with someone you truly love is the greatest gift we can ever have.
WOW, I cannot believe that you said "sad", don't you think it is a little bit "big" word.
- Can you tell me how did you get that it wasn't really confusing for me, heh?
- How did you get my feeling about love and marriage that is trivial, do you read minds?
- How can you be sure that that I will not entertain the same beliefs when God allows me to meet someone that touches my soul, do you see the future?
The answers of my questions are clear:
you misunderstood my post and neiter you can read minds nor see the future.
Therefore, i suggest when you emphasis about the certainty of something "which you don't know" to take it more easier and try to understand what others want to say.
faithandHope wrote:My apologies Mo2013 as my response was intended for the original post, not for yours. There appears to be some technical issues with this site? I answered a completely different post yet it appears here as well. I had no confusion with what you posted here and understood your viewpoint....
faithandHope,
Thanks for your fast and kind reply, appreciated. you are a true gentle-woman. 

faithandHope wrote:Wow...how ironic a statement. I have only heard about husbands that want to sin against their wives by committing adultery? However marriage vows are to be taken seriously before God. Both men and women have equal responsibilities toward each other.in everything. So please refrain from sarcastic sexist remarks, they are so redundent.
Don't worry your pretty little head about that nasty man.
mas fred wrote:Any other questions?
Many.聽 Oh so many.
faithandHope wrote:My post here speaking of adultery was in response to a man that made sexist remarks concerning women. Why it got posted here is obviously another tech error?
If you don't want to see sexist comments, you're at the wrong website.聽 Racism is not tolerated at all - which is a good thing - but hatred of women is very popular.

faithandHope wrote:I feel sad for your post.
You're sad because i chose an alternative way of life and have different views on marriage? And who are you to insinuate that we find happiness in marriage? Are you the author of the marriage? life alone is hard for you but not for me. Obviously you can't stand different opinions from yours and you are at the wrong place.
In addition, it is not up to you to decide who should be on this forum and who not!
HaileyinHongKong wrote:faithandHope wrote:My post here speaking of adultery was in response to a man that made sexist remarks concerning women. Why it got posted here is obviously another tech error?
If you don't want to see sexist comments, you're at the wrong website.聽 Racism is not tolerated at all - which is a good thing - but hatred of women is very popular.
Guys don't hate women; we love you.
Now, go make me a cup of tea.
None - It's women's work.

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