Is this young Moroccan man playing with me?
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If he really loves you, i advice you to ask strait guestion. I do that, the answer was what i sensed. Good luck馃挅
Men, in general, want younger women, sex, cash, escape from their country if they don't like the place and see a chance - but the first 'want' will go right out of the window if there's a fair chance of the others
Did he confessed by himself or you asked him.
Because if he was playing with you i don鈥檛 see the point of telling you that he can鈥檛 have childrens and was married before. It鈥檚 my opinion. And were are you from ?
Sounds like a scam so proceed with caution.
Reason : Foul language
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Yes culture is different, religion too.
If you鈥檙e living in morocco i hope you will meet some good moroccans . maybe you met only the worst moroccans.
There are good and bad persons everywhere not only in Morocco. Maybe women doesn鈥檛 have same rights as the men, and according to my knowledge it鈥檚 everywhere in the world not only in morocco.
And if a guy ask divorce because the women can鈥檛 cook, well it鈥檚 her fault. She chose an uncivilized men
Ask him about the gold diggers and ruthless Western women who deliberately scour the wealthy men in clubs and casinos..
Are they immoral?
Blue sky prove your facts as you have been asked as I do not see your point of view which is based on bias prejudice
I am amazed how such hatred comes across and unsubstantiated opinions expressed.
Bluesky your country does not have these problems so go back and be happy
Did you check how loyal he is? What if another girl who is a year or two younger than you approaches him and expresses her love to him , will he take the bite?
I am sure you have understood what I mean. Make an arrangement where some other girl/woman approaches him and see if he falls for her , saying that , that woman wants to relocate with him to her country post marriage . If he does then tread safe .
As for me, my husband is 35 and I am 63. We've been together for 5 years聽 and married for 4 years.聽 We live in Morocco because we love it here.聽 We are in Tinghir province, so I'm sure that could explain why the guys here don't聽 all want to leave. Paradise.
My advice to you is to meet his family spend a little time getting to know them too. Have you met his friends?聽 聽I say go with your heart.聽
Best of luck to you
Adrienne
Sara_7623 wrote:I met a young Moroccan man in a 鈥 social media forum鈥 a few month ago and we emediately hit it off. We began speaking every day. I鈥檝e been to Morocco and visit him and his family. I am soon going back but are now having second thaughts.....We had a few misunderstandings, but we solved them. I am 15 years older than him. He says he can not have children and was married once before. Am I totally naive and refuse to see the signs? Is he using me for money? A better life? I am already in love with him but as they say, love is blind.....Need some input.
I think you already have all the answers to all your questions deep inside your own mind.聽 And you also admit that you rather do not want to see those answers by ending your post with "love is blind". Your heart prefer to stay blind while mind is more realistic "but are now having second thoughts..."
This by the way reminds me an old Swedish ballad "Fredrik 脜kare och Cecilia Lind" only difference is you have changed the side聽 聽
Well they lived for the moment but a marriage is hopefully for a life time. A person has to get older with a partner who can understand her/him rest of the life even when the expire date is passed. Cheers!
All i can say is to advice you to take your time, if you have a doubt about the fact he can have kids or not you can go see a trustworthy gynaecologist, you can ask the exact issue and tell him you want to have it checked聽 so you know if he is saying yhe truth or not, i am moroccan my self and i have to say that all over the years and experiences from travel i have seen many marriages broken especially if the husband is moroccan not the opposit, the truth is harsh but there are many men who wants to escape morocco and have the europeen dream between their eyes, we witness this in many moroccan movies as a reflect of this culture, i am not saying this will happen to you but if he is asking you money this is not a good sign x
Thank you for input. Actually he has not asked for money and he also says he do not want my money. Only love and respect. I think reading all information on the web and on different forum is what made me doubt.... I was happily naive until then. But, I am not stupid and I will take your聽 advice and take my time.
Best regards
Sara_7623
I wish u the bestest of luck, but please please take your time and be carful, i don鈥檛 mean to scary you but i heard so many sad stories especially long time ago when the visa was so easy, it use to take 2 years for the moroccan partner to have their indefinite stay and all they is divorce the person, now the new law is harder and it takes 5 years to have the permanent residency, what i know being moroccan my self as i mentioned is that in our culture age difference between a man and a woman is not acceptable even by 1/2 years, on the other hand we see a 50 years old man marrying a 20 years without any problems.
My question is why does he accept such an age difference being moroccan ? Again i dont mean to scary you bit may ne trying to open your eyes about few points you should consider, the fact he cant have kids should be checked too
All the best x
I had ex bf online Moroccan. Make sure to tell him and show you will not do sex before marriage and see what will happen. Second, if you have any ways to write in your prenuptial agreement that he can't obtain visa in your country after many years like ten years perhaps.. Tell him and see how he will react. But he can still have legal access in your country even if he has no visa yet if u marry him.. That's the problem.
It seems some what predatory.聽 I view people younger then me like an older sister.聽 I have been around longer and know myself better.聽 So why would I want to baby sit some younger person?聽 Why would I want someone so desperate to latch on to me?聽 What would that say about me?聽 If someone significantly younger then me approaches me with romantic intentions ... have some integrity and redirect them to some one closer in age.聽 If my kid showed up telling me they wanted to marry someone a decade or more older I would be FURIOUS!!!聽 So I would never go there.
But if already you having doubt on him why you are marrying him
I mean marriage it does mean sharing your lifetime with another person
But if you need help I鈥檒l be here
She told me i can be ur second wife ahe got french nationality as my husband told me
Are you asking if you think it is okay that your husband who you have 5 kids with marries a Moroccan woman who already had 1 kid as his 2nd wife?
If that is your question ...
Well I did not realize polygamy was legal in Italy were you appear to be located.
Why does he need another wife?
What is he suppose to do with her that he cant do with you?聽 You already have 5 kids ... ( What does he want a football team)?
Is he able to meet the needs of both wives and all your kids?
Why are you allowing him to take another wife?
What are you getting out of the situation?
I don鈥檛 agree with polygamy
As he changed his first wife by another one
Maybe it will be the same issues with you
But if there鈥檚 a genuine love trust faithfulness
You know
You can feel it ...but if there鈥檚 a doubt about this relationship
I think you should take a step back
Have a good day
Also a woman that desperate to want to settle for being the 2nd wife of a man with 5 kids must be one pathetic desperate woman. At 25 to settle for that is tragic.聽 She must be an idiot.
When families raise their daughters to settle for being treated like garbage this is the outcome.聽 If I was in this situation I would have every member of my family going after my husband and making sure we were getting a divorce.聽 How anyone could think this is okay and try and blame the 25 year old fool for her husband's poor character is tragic.
Be aware of your surroundings and listen to your inner voice, and watch how your future partner reacts when you are around them.
I've been at the airport waiting for friends to arrive, and seen young Moroccan guys chatting with similar guys whilst they wait for their 'girlfriends' to arrive, and swap stories with each other in not such a pleasant way.
Typically its acceptable for an older guy to be with a younger woman, but not so much the other way around. It was nice to read that there was a 35 year old guy and a 64 year old woman together, but it's about expectations. Do they want to leave Morocco, or do you want to move there.
One thing I've discovered in my time in Morocco, is that everyone wants a better life, everyone wants to 'work hard' but few rarely do. Most want things provided for them, with little or no effort on their part.
I don't mean this as a doom and gloom post, but you have to be realistic. A relationship, a marriage is all about companionship. About building a better life for yourself and the person youre with. So take the precious time you have for getting to know the person, seeing if you 'fit' together. Are your expectations the same. Do you want someone who is happy to sit down all day doing nothing, or is that person pushing you do do better, pushing themselves to do better, to show you theyre dedicated building a better life.
You need to be much more attentive of when you 'choose' your partner, and think with your head, and not your heart. If you can rationalise your decisions and theirs, and ask yourself the question from time to time 'will I be happy with this person's behaviour like this for the rest of my life' then you're one step closer to your decision.
You see various programs of 90 days to get married, one couple in particular they were complete polar opposites. He was a gym bunny, and she couldn't walk more than 10 paces before getting out of breath. They started their relationship online, like most, and planned a future, but they didnt look at themselves objectively. Yes opposites attract, but you need some things in common in order to have the relationship 'synergy' which gives it stability, and longevity.
Remember, youve gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. Don't settle for the first price that comes along! The world's a big place... the 'right' person could be just around the corner.
Phil
Cheers
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