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Vagabondone wrote:

Just curious if it is common practice in Vietnam if when there is marital discourse that ransom is demanded as a condition of reconciliation?
Have a friend who got sideways with his wife. She booted him to the curb. He is not allowed to return until he buys her diamond earrings worth at least 5m VND.
In addition he must buy her a new motorbike worth at least 50 m VND.

I thought it just happened in horror movies or fiction books. Unless your friend likes the way his wife treats him, I find no reason for him to accept her conditions or to live with her even. It is uncommon and unacceptable in Vietnamese community.
@ancientpathos: yes it is common for material girls

Vagabondone wrote:

They are married and have a child. I thought it sounded odd. Yet there could be some cultural thing involved so I thought I would ask.

Of course!
Just put in the "cultural thing" aspect and everything's ok.
This is not a 'cultural thing'.
It's a gender 'thing'.
Geez.
You ever been married? Got any kids? Been living with a partner for more a year?

Vagabondone wrote:

They are married and have a child. I thought it sounded odd. Yet there could be some cultural thing involved so I thought I would ask.

If there is a divorce and they have a child, they have to divorce and handle support through a divorce tribunal. Quite cheap for the hearing, more expensive afterwards.

Some countries will enforce VN court support orders.

Yogi007 wrote:

Don't be another one of those guys we all laugh about.  Piss her off.  BUT then again , if you were stupid enough to buy her a house and all the trimmings, well that's another lesson you will learn the hard way. " Fools and money are soon parted".  And especially in SE Asia, " there's no fool like an old fool".  Walk away, don't throw good money after bad.  What does she bring to the table that a $30 hooker can't.  At least the hooker won't sit there all day watching cartoons.

"" How do you make a small fortune in Asia?""

""Bring a large fortune when you arrive.""

Panadol wrote:

Just curious if it is common practice in Vietnam if when there is marital discourse that ransom is demanded as a condition of reconciliation?
Have a friend who got sideways with his wife. She booted him to the curb. He is not allowed to return until he buys her diamond earrings worth at least 5m VND.
In addition he must buy her a new motorbike worth at least 50 m VND.....


Tell your mate, to go back to where he came from... Tell him, that the word 'Gullible' is no longer in the dictionary...... Obviously, he's "like a lamb to the slaughter"..... I hope this VN lady, gets her earrings and a Honda Lead, or a Can-Am Spyder?? Fuck, that would be cool !!!

Yes. The Op's 'friend'.
It's his 'mate'.
His 'friend' cannot find any ´ó¿§¸£ÀûÓ°Ôº forum for Vietnam to join.
Anonymously,
But several hundred Vietnamese nationals can do it easily.

Panadol wrote:

Errr, Correct.......
Besides all that...I hope she gets a Can-Am Spyder.... Fuck! I'd love one of those over here!... (But, the poor bastard Spyder, would never get out of 3rd gear, in VN), and, I hope she sells the diamond earrings, to buy a decent Shoei helmet. (Good Lord, this country needs them!)...
Marital ransom..... Pfft...... New Tourist, grow a brain!!!!

Or even better....
A Morgan with a HD engine out front.

jimbream wrote:

Or even better....
A Morgan with a HD engine out front.

Why stop there?  Might as well get yourself one of these babies:

DanFromSF wrote:

jimbream wrote:

Or even better....
A Morgan with a HD engine out front.

Why stop there?  Might as well get yourself one of these babies:

http://britmovietours.com/wp-content/up … -530-1.jpg

That's a beauty!
If  it's rego number doesn't have a 3 or a 7,
then I'll have 2.

jimbream wrote:

That's a beauty!
If  it's rego number doesn't have a 3 or a 7,
then I'll have 2.

Not sure about that.  You might try tracking down this bloke and asking him...

ancientpathos wrote:

When I broke up with my girlfriend she demand 100 million. Not sure if it is common practice to pay when leaving or returning. All I could do was laugh.

I thought she was your housekeeper, Ancient.  Have I missed something over the past few months? :-)

crazy fuss wrote:

You can rent a house here for ten life times cheaper than buying one.

I think you're using the wrong metric.  Let's say a house costs $100,000 and you have $100,000 to spend.  If you invest that $100,000, you could optimistically get a yearly 8% return over the long term.  In order to hedge inflation, you could spend around 5%, or $5000 per year, which is $416 per month.  So the question is:  Can you rent the house for less than $416 per month?  If so, the rental house is a good deal.  If not, you should look at purchasing, and consider whether the property's value will track inflation.

DanFromSF wrote:

... If you invest that $100,000, you could optimistically get a yearly 8% return over the long term.

This assumes you are not using a VN bank where interest is way below inflation, rendering your money worth less.

Jaitch wrote:

This assumes you are not using a VN bank where interest is way below inflation, rendering your money worth less.

Trying to make money on bank interest is for suckers.  Vanguard index funds are the most attractive vehicle, in my opinion.  Low fees, decent track record, reputable firm, etc.

crazy fuss wrote:

You seem smart and sweet

Thank you.

DanFromSF wrote:

crazy fuss wrote:

You seem smart and sweet

Thank you.

Now I know you are really strange . But it's ok, you made fun, hehehehe.

@crazy fuss: thank you if your compliment is for me , I hope so, because I am a sweet woman, so I like some sweet compliments, kakaka.