single woman considering move to costa rica
1. When I visited years ago a few times, I loved the areas of Dominical and Nosara as I love living near nature and wildlife.聽 However, since I am 60 is it silly to live somewhere that is not near hospitals? And how far are the nearest hospitals to those places?
2. Which area is safest for a single woman and besides the Central Valley which area has second largest expats? Do they get together and help each other? One thing about Boquete is that the expat community is VERY strong and you are not alone. You meet everyone and get alot of info.
3. Activities that mean alot to me - yoga, biking, gardening, tennis - do they exist in these places?
I thank everyone for their time - I am going through alot on a personal level and will have half of what I am living on now so need to make this change and its a little scary so any advice will be welcome.
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I have always found the expat communities to be very warm and engaging, regardless where I have been. A quirky bunch, but that聮s why we are here! Good Luck!
I am Carene聽 from Vancouver聽 and single in late 50's聽
I also play tennis.
Am considering doing the same as you
Lets stay in touch-聽 I聽 have聽 talked to several single ladies and I think it would be great to live in a place with some single lady friends as a support and activity circle.聽 聽Here is my email for communicating further
cmorton聽 聽at聽 聽globaltech dot bc dot ca
My 60 year old partner and I (53 years old) retired to Costa Rica last year from California and are very happy here on the Southern Pacific Coast. By your description of yourself, I think you would do well in this area, which is considerably more rainy, less developed and lush than the North Pacific Coast.聽 The rent for a casa on the Coast is considerably higher that in the Central Valley, which boasts the highest percentage of ex-pats.聽 The Central Valley is definitely more urban, busy, social, with more restaurants and services than where we are, which is basically jungle and very rural.聽 We live about 30 minutes south of Dominical. Nature and activities are abundant (beach walks, hiking to waterfalls, snorkeling, etc).
We have visited Boquete and thought it quaint, but we missed the friendly Tico folks who have a strong identity, the quality of the houses, the ocean and jungle views and the nature adventures within reach of us.
The road are difficult to navigate to get to a house of an elevation that is comfortable - lower down on the beach is hot and buggy and often noisy (village life!) You must be comfortable with driving in difficult conditions, really anywhere in Costa Rica, but moreso on the coasts.
There is a public hospital near us in Cortez for basic items, but the best private hospitals (often preferred by ex-pats) are in San Jose.聽 I have had services at Clinica Biblica there and found the doctors and the care to be exceptional and reasonably priced.
There is strong ex-pat community of Canadians and US ex-pats in our area, as well as many Europeans. Often we get together for meals, parties and "ladies" lunches at local restaurants.聽 We have many single retired ladies, primarily in your age group, among whom you would find like interests - cards, swimming, yoga, gardening, golf and perhaps tennis, as perhaps one of the hotels has a court (although it might be a bit hot).
As for safety, there is petty theft here, but most folks have a dog and a locked gate.聽 I have never felt unsafe at night or in any of the local towns, but I do not act like a tourist nor do I have any business dealings within the Tico community. Bill and I are renters, where the US casa owner navigates and manages most all of our business transactions.
I recommend an investagative visit in the area that most appeals to you, find out where the local gringos go hang out, go ask them questions and then rent for 3 - 6 months to see if you like the area, the community and the weather.
You mwill find some of our adventures on my blog:聽
Best wishes on taking this leap!聽 It is a lovely, spiritual peaceful country - just perfect for restoring the soul!
Jamie
Thank you to all the info and comments shared so generously by those already living in CR!聽 It is priceless and hopefully save all us wanna be in CR from costly mistakes.
I have a suggestion
We all have these issues in common but even more so for the single ladies.聽 聽 聽 聽 Where to go settle.聽 聽 聽So seems like we all need to travel around a bit to check out where we feel most at home.
And this depends on what we need or want in a new country.
Me?聽 聽I like to play tennis and pickleball, do some pilates or yoga or biking, I want to have a lot of new friends to do things with.聽 聽 聽And I like the ocean.
From my research it looks like living in the suburbs around San Jose offers you most of these activities and getting around by bus or taxi is OK.聽 聽 聽I have found a lovely B & B in Atenas and the owner is also a single lady.聽 聽GREAT聽 prices.聽 She said-聽 聽dont get a car-聽 it is not IF聽 you will be in an accident it is when.聽 聽She is a goldmine of information.聽 聽I thought to start my scouting there.聽 聽The weather is great there.聽 聽
But I dream of living by the ocean so traveling to the Pacific coast is a must.聽 聽 聽I don't want just have jungle and peace-聽 I am active and curious and a social creature.聽 But is it too hot and humid?聽 聽 聽 Is getting around a nightmare?聽 THe roads are full of potholes and just read about guy's axel聽 breaking at night hitting a pothole-聽 Sooo聽 聽 NOt聽 that excited about relying on getting around myself by car...聽 聽
One can hire a聽 driver for a day-聽 but聽 at $100 for a lot of days it gets pricey.聽 聽 聽
Traveling around is one of the things that seems to be not that easy.聽 聽 聽
So here is a suggestion-聽 we singles (men not excluded)聽 聽 聽pick a month聽 (and rates go way down until the dry season starts- and BTW聽 the wet season means it rains most afternoons for a while then it clears up)
WE book a place together-聽 聽we decide where we want to travel to or explore, we share costs, we make friends.
Safety in numbers and savings in sharing costs.
Thoughts?
聽 Carene - Lets stay in touch. I am actually going to do a relocation tour which is what I did in Panama and it was very helpful but not sure when I am going to do it - hoping in the next 6 months but I have alot to get through here first. I would have loved to do it your way but feel this is the best thing for me but will let you know when i decide. If you make plans before that please let me know as things change.聽 I have already been to costa rica a few times so have a feel for it though much more to learn before i take the leap.聽 I am social as well but feel that the southern pacific coast will still offer these things plus give me what i am looking for but we can talk more about it.
聽 Pinkops you sound like you are just beginning so also stay in touch!
Carene - you can also use my email of course and I will write to you separately in the next day or so...by the way - WHAT is pickle ball???
I am not for sure yet what area I will finally settle in but I am starting in the Central Valley.
We should stay in touch.
聽 Where do you live now?
聽 My only other concern is that I will need to be on somewhat of a budget - not a bad one but a budget nonetheless. I really don't want to pay more than $1000 for a house and i think the beaches might be out of my reach. Anyway, I need to take a break from obsessing over it. Costa Rica has always been my dream ever since I first visited. Whereas Panama (bouquet) was really great but didn't steal my heart in the same way.
I think I'd fit right in with all of you!聽 I'm going to be 53 and am just trying to refi my house (can't do til late August!) and want to move to Central America.聽 I feel like I'd have the best connections and interests with folks from Costa Rica.聽 I'm a true nature NUT!聽 I'm hesitant to spend a bunch of money for a relocation group tour type thing even though it might save me lots of mula.聽 I think just talking with new friends/EXPATS there (like Carene and Elciddad) could be just the ticket.聽 Time flies so I'll be there soon and I am thinking that Central Valley would be best to rent and do my research by taking bus all over CR with some new pals like yourselves!聽 I am soooo excited!聽 I really want to see a Toucan each day and get to where seeing monkeys is so commonplace they're like the neighborhood dogs聽 :聽 )
Right now I live in Denver.聽 I fly to CR this Saturday and finish my TEFL program in San Jose.聽 I will be down there hanging out and studying for two and a half weeks.聽 Then back to Denver for a few weeks then moving down there mid May.
I will keep you all posted on how it's going and any tips I can pass your way.
Lori
Well with Dave already there to help with his advice and me settling there soon, you will already have some in country contacts when you come in August!聽 And with Sherry heading down soon too, we will have our own little group of expat single women.聽 (Excluding Dave on that one.聽 Ha).聽 Maybe we can be our own version of the Golden Girls but set in CR.聽 gosh, what a great idea for a reality show!!聽 jajaja
聢also am in your age bracket divorced 11 yrs ago
聢live in a LOVELY area of CR called San Rafael de Heredia which is a moderate climate and CLOSE to all expecially hospitals .I was a3 acre B&B /fruit farm YET 10 minutes from towns and villages 22 years ago..I retired and have 3 apartments and 2 rustic Chalets and the main 2 story 4 bedroom house (FAR too big for me now I may rent it also and live in one of the apartments NOT huge but cozy Hot showers and TRANQUIL .BUS STOP at electric gate ..Fruit/veg farmers mkts 5 minutes away by bus ... now for me..also has a furnished apartment below ALL have gorgeous VIEWS of Volcano and city lights, private and in SAFE area NOT hot and muggy like our beaches which lately hav e become drug infested
MY big concern was to be CLOSE to Hospitals for my guests and THANK GOD because now I have been making LOTS of use for them ..Heart arrhythmia and I slipped on an outside cement steps cracking 2 bones in my spine .Thank God I am at least waling couls have been worse
So If you like the lovely Countryside and Close to everything (2 small mkts on our road ..This is a heavenly change ..I retired from my B&B after 22 years and NOW rent MONTHLY the chalet and the cozy apartments furnished ... Far less money but far less work
So if interested email me and I will send photos
BUT I would need to know WHEN you inteneded to move as they are few and fill up with ex pats FAST for same reason (NICE to have English speakers close by to take care of each them. In emmergency at our age good to have friends nearby yet private We also have a few gringo Hang outs in Villages ..although I dont hang out in bars Those teen days are over but the older guys hang there ...
My friends from FL want me to keep an apartment for them that are considering a permenant move so I need dates THEY a couple great fun ...should be arriving around June 1
If you can as I changes from High mainneneance living to the Simple life 22 years ago You wouls love it I also have wireless Internet so never lonely for chatting with friends ... and all have views Patios and Privacy or company whatever ..
Let me know my private email is
I also am a wealth of knowledge for new arrivals ... Rents furnished with free Utilities and Internet run from 450 to $500 I have lovable QUIET dogs and an outdoor kitty but prefer my tenants not to have pets ..but share mine

extrapets@gmail.com
Regards
Deborah

BUT if it is the older lady I am thinking of she does not DEMAND but simply aslks if anyone caares to donate as her pension is very low ..I understand that IF it is a necessity...
Both is聽 where all the sheep run to and in my opinion I may have well have stayed in USA....I am a single /DIVORCED聽 lady here 22 years and not lonely without聽 hearing the "YEAHS "聽 but the SI's
I lived in Santa Ana the first聽 3 months and felt I may as well have stayed in the USA if I was NOT going to live in the REAL Costa Rica like the HEREDIA hills 10 minutes from several towns and 20 minutes for Escazu..bt a world apart. Upscale but HALF the price and FAR less dangerous for break ins.
the gorgeous hills of HEREDIA Tranquil and LUSh ...and AWESOME Views of Volacanoes and greenery...YET 10 minutes from many towns I can drive to ugly San Jose and ESCZU in 20 minutes except for rush hours ..but RARELY do so ...gives me a headache LOL
.and THEY pay 3 times as much as we do for RENT , groceries , and EVERYTHING..I am not a follower, as you an tell, so I live on AWAY from the Gringo Gulches ,speak FLUENT Spanish . pay less for Groceries and furniture clothes etc ..and never had a break in AND Personally I like to absorb the WAY of life yet still have ENOUGH Gringos to chat with if necessary..so to each his own SOME do not mind paying to live amongst the traffic, Noise of construction and feel the nescessity of HAVING to have Gringos everywhere thus never learning Spanish.I also am in your age range and Divorced , and聽 feel MUCh safer having lived in the ZOO my first 3 months ..some just CANT let go of the USA so ...Then it is for them...I rent 3 apartments on my fruit farm and 3 chalets so always have Gringos around
I have wireless Internet TRANQUILITY ,VIEWS< Bus stop at gate BETTER highways and streets than the Zoo..and lovely local folk.
SOME聽 people over "that way "never even LEARN that HEREDIA an Upscale town . with WEALTHY Costa Ricans , and students from around the world. $ UNIVERSITIES , YES and a COUNTRY CLUB..SAFE聽 and has EVERYTHING even alls and cinemas and UPScale restauarants聽 as well as local clean Cafes (sodas) and a BRAND NEW HOSPITAL Even a MALL with quality and lower rices due to lower mall rents ... BRAND new fancy Hospital ..but 95% of those people do NOT speak Spanish after living here 20+years.. so sad ..LOL
so plY FOLLOW THE LEADER AND ...WELL WHAT MORE CAN I SAY ??
GET TO KNOW THE REAL beauty of COSTA RICA ..? or follow to Gringoland ?
that was an ad ,,this is a get together LOl "for ladies alone聽 who want to feel safe,,, Scuuuse me !!!
Deb
sherry
???
What kind of dog is she/he? Big small? Indoor Outdoor? I am too old to have more as they have kept me trapped many times because I wont leave then alone to travel Unless I have REAL doggie lovers to help聽 RARE聽 here in CR
Who knows,,by the time you arrive I arrive I may not ANY
pets ..I swore no more for ME ANWAY聽 because they are all my babies and until they pass on SOME of them are a bit territorial but NEVER vicious ..just a bit jealous of foreign furry faces 
So do jeep in touch and in any case聽 I would love to meet聽 you and the other ladies as I have been here 22 yrs and I am told I聽 am a wealth of information..so keep my email and phone ..and let聽 me know before your adventure begins
Best of Luck
Deborah
New York, Los Angeles. Barbados,to name a few and you?
extrapetss@yahoo.com
look forward to a new friend ..what genre ???
deborah
I am here!聽 Yay!!聽 聽I have started a blog about my experience here so if you want to become followers and see my adventures and misadventures you can see my latest post here and also sign up to follow it if you want to.聽
聽 Pura Vida!Lori
Yes you MAy in some very cheap hostels maybe in San Jose find unusual showers BUT
REALLY " ON Demand" showers mean JUST THAT you get water ON DEMAND ..NO waiting Water gets Hot when used to save re heating Huge water tanks at great expense just to get cold and then re heated automatically over and over .so most are water 'ON DEMAND" I am so confused Are you sure you were turning it on LOL?
I would hate to think visitors here had to go through what you did just to take a shower and use a bathroom..Yes we even have fast foods UPSCALE and modest Excellent restaurants..
no outdoor toilets LOL and even high speed iNternet and yes MALLS..and Country Clubs IF so desired ,
I guess depends on where you are living ..WHERE ARE YOU LIVING I am curious,and cant wait to hear..
Pack your things and get to Central Valley and CIVILIZATION
Debbie
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