@elizabethreima I'm unsure if my previous post was lost. You seem sincere and to be a parent who prioritizes family, so I want to be sure you get another expat parent's 2 cents who is familiar with education here. I am married to a Hungarian and both she and I teach in the public school system (I'm just a volunteer, teaching essay writing in English), and we have a daughter who is graduating high school in 2023.
I fear this is could be tough on all of you. While many teachers can muster some English in the public sector, you are not guaranteed such. Private schools are expensive - maybe your "package" is sufficient, but as I recall my business partner with 3 kids in school was paying around 10K per kid per year (it scaled down for the younger kids and that was 10 years ago).聽 Check the British school, Brittania, SEK, and the American School for prices.
There are some state bilingual schools, but they are aimed at Hungarians gaining English skills, are targeting high school level, and are primarily meant for the best students. They have no intention to cater to foreigners looking to save on school fees. They also expect kids and parents to have a command of Hungarian.
My bigger concern is that whether you choose private or public, the public education sector is horrendously underfunded with no prospects of a fix (the country seems to have other priorities). Yes, the US as well as many other countries don't fund education well, but here in Hungary, things are at least an order of magnitude worse. As a result, teachers are being forced out of the profession as they simply cannot aford to remain (I'm talking about the earning a "living wage" not whether to forego a holiday in Spain or buy a 2nd car). As such, in the not-so-distant future, if not already, there will be a staffing crisis. As it is, the country lacks STEM teachers (as I figure the turnover rate is 800 annually and last year, the country only generated 100 while this year less than 50 started getting their masters in education). Applying System Dynamics (something Hungarian politicians don't seem to know about) I expect that in 8 years, the country won't be teaching STEM subjects at all. Or if they do, it'll have to be in English with teachers imported from Africa and India (along the lines of how America imports from Latin America to pick grapes, bus tables, and mow lawns).
With the public schools packing up, there will be more competition by at least the better-healed parents, for the private places where you'll be wanting to send your pre-schoolers.
Your toddlers will be okay on the creche, nursery and kindergarten but you will likely need help translating.聽 For your 1st grader, it'll be more of a challenge. Any issues (say behavioral, bullying, homework questions) and you'll be scrambling.聽 On the positive side, for your kids under the age of 5, they will acquire Hungarian naturally. Your 1st grader is likely to be lonely though some kids might speak some English. Perhaps the language difference will be a novelty and it might be a way to make friends who will help with language acquisition.
You, however, could find it tough to participate in their schooling.
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