
The Loner
Caymanian expat in Belgium
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36
About me
Caymanian
Lives in Brussels
Registration: 14 July 2013
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Not so much than being trapped in a marriage where you have to work your whole life to support your family.Leaving no time for travel or do anything that interests you. Wife torment you day and night and question your authority, she may cheat on ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
I thought I was being paranoid about marriage, that's why I created this thread so you "marriage-lovers" could prove me that marriage is what you claim to be but so far I get no valid reason, maybe because there's no valid reason at all... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
Exactly, nowadays things are not the way they were 45+ years ago. Things changed. Yesterday is gone. If you'd get a chance to be in your mid 20s like me and try to build a social circle of females you wouldn't get as good results and I'm sure you ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
Appreciated your understanding, I'm aware that modest women treat men with reservation but you'd be surprised that even some of them seems to be influenced by the bad ones due to globalization and other causes as rc206 stated. Not only have I ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
I have lived in both rich and modest neighborhoods.In the rich neighborhood there were these absolutely graceful and gorgeous women (they are overloaded with attention all their lives) who I'd mostly seen them friday nights or weekend nights but ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
I couldn't agree more, and women here are such hypocrite when they say they can be friends with men, I bet if you approach them they'll think exactly what I've written and reject you...they are insane. Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Curiously you are the fewest person on here who don't judge me or ridiculed my opinions. I used to be a different kind of person, the reason I am what I am today is the result of my experience the opposite sex, they corrupted my conscience, my ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
Let me illustrate why they can't be friends nowadays: Typical conversation with a woman: M: Hi there,what's your name? care for a drink? Woman thinks: (Oh not again, this is the 90th guy who approaches me, does he want to get in my pants? is he ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
For Mr Woodward, [Moderated: inappropriate] (and who knows how many similar situations are happening worldwide?) It doesn't sound right for him to strongly oppose to my views,maybe you know I'm right you just don't want to admit it may be because ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Mr WoodwardI'm aware that you've gone through a bitter divorce from a bad kind of woman who according to you, was interested in you when you were wealthy. And yet you haven't lost faith in "true love" and remarried. But my views of women isn't ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Since obviously you are older and more experienced than me I'd expect you to agree with me. You better than me, have seen how things have changed along the generations. I don't need to quote how superficial women are nowadays and how is it so common ... Read More
Why do we fall in love? by The Loner
What makes someone convincing a total stranger of the opposite sex to spend the rest of life together and have kids in the name of love?
At first both you and your husband were strangers but after this... ...You two are not strangers anymore you are a couple now, It happens all the time... except with people like me. Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
At least she got something right. Link to this: i don't know if that's ironic but it is believed that wives refuse to have s3x with their own husbands most of the times...So yes, if you think you'll get sex in your marriages as often as you want ... Read More
What would you like to accomplish before you pass away? by hutkgjf
I wanna live well and die well in a distant future.
To give up on women & marriage,Travel the world, be able to speak several languages,learn Karate and play a guitar, I'll climb on top of the highest sky-scrapper and feel like I own the world.This will be awesome My life will be eventful at this ... Read More
Why do we fall in love?
What makes someone convincing a total stranger of the opposite sex to spend the rest of life together and have kids in the name of love? Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Where on this forum did I mention that I'm in a relationship or that it can hurt one? Try to read clearly and think before rushing to blurt out thoughtless remarks. Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
I only hear my heartbeats, I think that there's no solid foundation that backs up the opinion that to be happy we have to be in a relationship, there are many unhappy couples out there and stressful marriages beyond repair. Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
Believe me I've been meeting people everyday, Once I approached a woman, but the whole thing felt like she was doing me a favor for talking to me and not to mention the phone number part. Another thing is that they never approached me, so I take ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
It's true that everyone that gets married thinks that he/she is the one until the divorce,According to sources the divorce rate skyrocketed.Nowadays Marriage has been demeaned by the Media & feminism. What are the chances that your marriage won't be ... Read More
Are you afraid of dying one day? by hutkgjf
we all gonna die one day. We aren't going to live forever ( are we? ) we will leave this beautiful world behind, The only dangerous thing that has ever happened to us is that we were born because we can die at any time. Any thoughts?
the hardest part is how do we think we are supposed to live, when one day we pass away and leave everything we accomplished behind. Darn it. Read More
Unconfessed reasons for your immigration by landinbrazil
Have you thought about your real motives for wanting to leave your country of origin?
I was just tired of my country, I was searching something new and exciting and no I didn't move for work or because of love, both can run out and when they run out you won't have any reason. Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
People aren't you being naive by thinking that every single person in this planet is meant to be in a relationship? I am sure that in a world of allegedly 7 billion there is a group of people: man or woman that chooses to remain single and live an ... Read More
Is living abroad a mind-changing experience? by lumierre
I am wondering how expats see and understand better their own national-based or cultural-based thinking and acting errors and misconception, rooted back home... I personally believe that leaving your own country is the best learning experience for ...
Living abroad doesn't necessarily mean ''mind-changing'' YOU choose to assume a particular personality or character bad or good. About non-expats, if you pay attention the most prevalent & active members are expats, non-expats disappear after ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
Thanks AsianLover, I got your back 100% partner. Adding to my post above: most people who fall in love with their best friend didn't actually planned it or wanted it to happen! It just occurs whether is wrong or right. Just look up online about ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
Half of the people who've posted in this topic should read this.Nobody but Nobody can choose a person to feel attracted to, I read cases in which friends of the opposite sex felt for each other. attraction is not a choice. Geez it seems like Mr. ... Read More
Teenager can speak 20 languages. by The Loner
This video is a motivation for all expats here to learn more languages. What if we all have this capacity? What if we aren't trying [b]hard enough[/b] ? youtu.be/Km9-DiFaxpU
Mr Goldon I don't really think that it depends on moving to another country in order to learn a language if you watched the video, the teen in question never really moved out and yet he speaks the languages fluently. We have an American expat on ... Read More
Teenager can speak 20 languages.
This video is a motivation for all expats here to learn more languages. What if we all have this capacity? What if we aren't trying hard enough ? youtu.be/Km9-DiFaxpU Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
I know nothing about them but based on my observation I'd say that: they use their sexuality to get what they want(especially the attractive ones) they use layers of make-up and dress in very tight clothes it seems like it's chocking them.They are ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
I strongly disagree with that. I've been abroad for 4.5 years by myself. With no friends and no family and yet i was able to solve my problems one by one. Furthermore what about married people? Do they seem to solve their own problems? Infedility, ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question by The Loner
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ...
You're sad because i chose an alternative way of life and have different views on marriage? And who are you to insinuate that we find happiness in marriage? Are you the author of the marriage? life alone is hard for you but not for me. Obviously you ... Read More
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends? by hutkgjf
Can a man and a woman be JUST friends?
They CAN'T be just friends: men and women live, work, and play side-by-side, and generally seem to be able to avoid spontaneously sleeping together. However, the possibility remains that this apparently platonic coexistence is merely a "fa莽ade", an ... Read More
To marry or not to marry? that's the question
I'm getting closer to the age of 30,it's time to make important decisions in life and one of them is finding a wife. I've never had a female friend, let alone a girlfriend, And i know nothing about them but I've been observing closer friends and ... Read More