Thanks for reply. Yes, we have registered at the town hall and I even have my NIE! Sorry, I didn't explain very well. My husband works for his own company which is based in the UK. i.e. he is an employee of his company. He could pay social services here but we don't really know how to organize it. I have been to the social services office in Bisbal, they told be to go to Girona. I phoned Girona and they told me I had to work to have a number.
I still believe that the first step is to get your husband a social security number and card. This can be done at a local social security office ie a Tesoreria de Seguridad Social, or its Catalan equivalent. If the company is your husband's, then he will also have a NIE, and is presumably registered as self-employed ie working for himself as an ²¹³Ü³Ùó²Ô´Ç³¾´Ç.
I have been to the social services office in Bisbal, they told be to go to Girona. I phoned Girona and they told me I had to work to have a number.
The social services office or Tesoreria most likely to help you should be in the municipality in which you live and are registered in. The town hall should be able to supply you with the address of the relevant and most convenient address for this. It may be the case that you have to work to have a number, but I believe not; if you are registered as living at an address, you are entitled to health cover. I repeat though that if you can get a number for your husband, you and your children, because he is working, will be entitled to social security cover through him as beneficiaries.
Perhaps I can become an employee of my husbands company. But still not sure how to organize it!
This may also be possible, but it is both a hassle at this stage, and of secondary importance to getting a social security card for your husband.
We do have reciprocal healthcare but it is only for emergencies and doesn't cover the children for their vaccinations. Also, school have told me that my son has to have healthcare here.
If the school is insisting that your son must have healthcare here, and I am sure they are right, then they may also be able to give you some advice as to the process. I daresay there are other parents in your situation with children at the same school. The parents too could be a source of accurate, more up to date and practical information than I am able to give you.