Tito12
Australian expat in Vietnam
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Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
Not sure if you were just joking with him but these are very conservative estimates, especially food. Even Vietnamese, living in cities,spend more on food monthly unless they are quite poor. 100 000 VND per day for food is only possible for 1 person ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
bta87,I think your old age dementia is showing (maybe that is one of the attributes that young Vietnamese girls are looking for in "mature and experienced men in their 60ties"?), I don't think solo1 is the guy you are looking for ;) I even like it ... Read More
ATMs in HCMC. Any where I can get more than 2M dong? by Nam_
My stupid bank (Wells Fargo) charges like $5 intl ATM fee I think (at least they did in Mexico, I used the ATM here one time and don't see the charge yet). I used an ATM for the first time the other day and all it would let me draw was 2 million ...
ATMs in Kumho Asiana Plaza on Le Duan allow you to take at least 9 or 10 million. I think fee is around $2 to $3. Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
saigonmonkey,nice to read a voice of reason. I wanted to reply few times in the last 2 days but but then I realized what a bizarre mentality this is where a man in sixties chasing a girl in twenties and she and even her parents being all for it is ... Read More
Why does Budweiser taste so terrible in Vietnam....? by johnnywastaken
Dang....!! .... had a few tonight and even though they were ice cold.... reminded me of Ole Milwaukee...or even worse...Pabst Blue Ribbon....there must be Clydesdale's turning in their graves somewhere in Kentucky....
Budweiser tastes terrible everywhere,not only in Vietnam. I prefer Vietnamese beers. I don't know why Vietnamese are crazy about Heineken though,I don't think it is much better than Saigon beer or 333 (but I'm not an expert).Is it "It is a foreign ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
hELLnoi,stop trying to use cheap debate tricks.I speak about certain kind of women and not about all. Solo1 used generalization statements about all Thai women and I don聮t see you accusing him hating Thai women. Even more,few people here have made ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
VungTauDon,we both know that my stance is completely normal in west but being in SE Asian country it is me who is pissing against the wind with a completely valid (parental) mentality. Yes, precisely,it is easy to say this when it is someones elses ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
solo1,you can't blame me (and other responsible parents in the west) if I would react extremely if a guy in 60ties would want date my daughter in early 20ties. Try this in west and see what happens. On the other hand why should I have respect for ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
solo1,ok,I'm gonna tone this down: I stayed completely on topic in this thread until your reply.Please reread the replies again, some are much more direct and insulting. You have lived in 25+ countries and no matter how small the percentage of women ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
Solo1: relax granpa,it's not good to be so upset in the SEVENTH decade of your life. Maybe sweet lovemaking to your gf in 60ties..no..50ties..no..40ties..no..30ties..no..20ties(!) can help you relax? I'm not the one chasing girls barely in 20ties in ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
Just as your assumptions (which you even repeated twice) were :) If you believe that anything I said is not happening in SE Asia (quite often even) then just correct me with the facts. Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
hELLnoi,you might not appreciate it,who would? But the fact is a fact. Being in marriage does not mean that one party is not doing it for the money. I think it was you who mentioned Crystal Harris and Anna Nicole - were they anything else than just ... Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
jacksamau, I think you replied to wrong thread but I may as well answer you here too. BTW,I like how I draw from over 15 years of staying in SE Asia and am being labeled all kinds of stuff while you nonchalantly state that all this (about SE Asian ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
hELLnoi,I answered you already. You need to move around people, hang out with certain marginal groups, have friends in certain circles ..then maybe you will learn something like this too without being taken advantage of or burned. One example: I ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
People have friends everywhere, you do not need to be one of them(what they are) to hang aroundthem. Live in some country for years and you will have deeper insight. You do not need to be drug addict to have insight into drug scene,you do not need ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
But we are prosecuting her without knowing what NashCat chatted with her, and ready to send her to the gallows without even knowing who she is.We are just telling him what the possibilities are,this is SE Asia and this is how the things are here, ... Read More
Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat
Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...
my god, the idiocy and naivety of some guys here.. $800/month...dude,they ride you well.. Just like there are lots of men coming to Vietnam having multiple girlfriends so there are lots of girls who have multiple sponsors aka boyfriends,just like ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
If she had been the same age as me it would have worked out the same way.Sorry I just don't believe that's the real reason(not that you should care of course),that's the most usual and stereotypical excuse we get here by men with much younger ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
I agree with you on this and during the years I have changed the opinion on who exactly is causing what.In other words it takes two to tango so I didn't only talk about expats in my posts. Girls are getting more and more aggressive with Vietnam ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
I like to complete your sentence with "EVERYWHERE". We see this in Hollywood everyday, even Windsor Castle. Beautiful girls marry rich man. Smarter girls marry billionaires!true,gold diggers are everywhere but many here would like you to believe it ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
VungTauDon,mostly Vietnam but also Thailand and a little Philippines. Vietnam was actually a lot less like this even a decade ago,now it's slowly going Thailand and Philippines route. I remember mostly seeing weird local couples and was told that ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
no unresolved issues, jealousy is the last thing I would be because if you have it anyone can have it(gf in SE Asia that is). Critical:I guess I am,once I get older I might be less and go your route,who knows but hopefully not. No closet ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
Exactly! Better said in one sentence than I did it in 100,I have to admit it. Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
Your last post doesn't contain a single counter argument or point of view. The topics I responded are the ones where I recognized most of the BS being said. Advice I give is valid and realistic,comes from years of experience being in SE Asia, I ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
Citsym,you most definitively are exception to rule.A usual older guy here would make you to believe that a woman of your wives age is jaded,not fun,not this and that and all the usual BS they say to excuse why they are with that young piece of ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
I am not married,I have a western girlfriend for few years and I'm happy with her. I've been in SE Asia for over 15 years (long enough to see how things work here) and you do not need to be in unhealthy marriage to have a western values and ... Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
ah dear khanh44,you are so naive once again about why so many older expats visit Thailand and Vietnam. Maybe NOT in this case specifically (although many signs are there) but in general. Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
khanh44,like I said,it depends on the man ,the girl and the situation. Girls ANYWHERE in the world are much more likely to make out with a (hot) guy their age than a wrinkled guy in their grandparents age for lust as opposed to some financial ... Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
ah dear khanh44 ,you don't know much about SE Asian girls and you could not be more wrong on this one! :) In SE Asia it doesn't mean anything and it is heavily dependent on who the man is. I have met thousands of expats and I have yet to meet a ... Read More
Vietnamese wife? by bta87
I realize this is a very subjective question, but are what are the experiences of the men on here that are married to VN brides? Question #2) What should I look out for. I've heard some real horor stories. Mind you I'm 63, have money and girls are ...
Didn't want to resurrect this thread but scanning through it I found the the most intelligent question and answer were completely ignored by "traditional Vietnamese females" and the expats dating (and financially caring for) them....and it is not ... Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
That is true. Judging by that guys pic I assume the girl working at food place is much younger and we can safely assume she is much prettier. If they go together to a hotel in HCMC that has rates per hour and they only stay there for an few hours or ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
Those two things don't necessarily go together but you don't seem to make this connection. If you had a real daughter you would say otherwise,just like any responsible parent would. I know that you speak hypothetically and want to give the ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
where did you get the idea that he is physically abusing her? Maybe he is ,I don't know but I seem to have missed where she mentioned this. Did you mean in general? In that case yes,I too have read and heard several stories where men (and their ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
If I remember correctly she mentions that even her parents are against this so she has choices,it's more her mindset and mentality that keeps telling her that is the only choice she has. MIA2013 also raises an interesting question that I am ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
Not sure if this is supposed to make me jealous? How can it,in best case I have a meaningful loving life with my western girlfriend and in worst case I end up in my 60ties just like you,chasing some jailbait in SE Asia. I'm a man and men have ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
Ah,no arguments again,just personal attacks and absurd presuppositions. What did you just say in your previous post? Ever notice when someone is losing the debate they attack the opponent personally?My comments and viewpoints are honest, ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
solo1,I never heard of you before,I just clicked on your profile,it takes 5 seconds. You are a creep and a pervert not only subjectively but also objectively. You are because you can be,I guess you can be happy that SE Asia exists. There is no way ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
I think this topic has been discussed quite for long and there is not much to say so I thought I'll end participating but this solo1 post is just way too tempting to not to respond. solo1 is a perfect example of what I'm talking about.What's more he ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
true,the same can be said to your immature younger (foreign or Vietnamese) boys comment. We are all generalizing. khanh44,I agree, this is a forum though and the idea of forum is for people with different opinions to have discussions,especially ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
kiku_hana,try talking to foreigners your age then although I do not agree that most young boys are immature,especially the ones who are maybe few years older than you and educated. Boys immaturity is a common complaint of all women around the world ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
colinoscapee,you will hardly find a man with much younger wife that would agree that the age gap is too large. For you 17 is completely normal, for a guy with 25 years younger wife 25 years is normal and so on. There are several men on this forum in ... Read More
u can learn vietnamese, i can learn english, is it so difficult? by lylyly
sorry, maybe my note is so mistake, but i just chat with foreigner and he said that he get all 4 vietnamese teacher, and now he just use body language,? what is his problem? his problem is the same as my problem , i have learned english for long ...
careful buddy,your new wife might not like you chatting and drinking coffee with other Vietnamese ladies :D It is a big no no with some traditional families,it can even bring shame to them if you are seen in public by their friends or someone who ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
they target older men because the older men usually have financial security,they can be easier to fool and are also very satisfied with what they got (a young girl to have sex with and someone who will take care of them at old age) in the last ... Read More
How much does a wedding cost in Vietnam? by NashCat
Don't know nothing about cost of wedding, but do know I am paying for it. Bottom line, how much does an AVERAGE wedding cost in Vietnam? In Nha Trang in particular. I am hearing about $10,000 - $15000 USD.
Howie,what you say is partially true but you are forgetting one thing (let me in this case concentrate on the western male/Vietnamese female couple): The daughter will in no way stop caring for parents after she gets married. She might not live with ... Read More
The Marriage Party by ancientpathos
In vietnamese culture, can someone explain to me the marriage party. Why is the cost of the party the expense of the groom? Why is there an agreed to sum of money paid to the parents? Why does it seem that every relative has a sick buffalo and ...
The subject was foreigners not respecting or trying to change traditions of locals. Replace Vietnam with let say USA. If they have the right to not accept the traditions in foreign countries then so do we. Irrelevant. We are on the subject of ... Read More
The Marriage Party by ancientpathos
In vietnamese culture, can someone explain to me the marriage party. Why is the cost of the party the expense of the groom? Why is there an agreed to sum of money paid to the parents? Why does it seem that every relative has a sick buffalo and ...
Who said I would like them to change traditions? I didn't. It is true though that there is no need to blindly follow or agree with all the traditions and requests they have , that would have been dumb. Even they don't always follow it. Be sure that ... Read More
The Marriage Party by ancientpathos
In vietnamese culture, can someone explain to me the marriage party. Why is the cost of the party the expense of the groom? Why is there an agreed to sum of money paid to the parents? Why does it seem that every relative has a sick buffalo and ...
This might be true in countryside but not so in Saigon. Sure,poor are everywhere but lots of families have enough money and many times the dowry is paid where there is no real need for it other than just to get some money out of this tradition. Read More
u can learn vietnamese, i can learn english, is it so difficult? by lylyly
sorry, maybe my note is so mistake, but i just chat with foreigner and he said that he get all 4 vietnamese teacher, and now he just use body language,? what is his problem? his problem is the same as my problem , i have learned english for long ...
A lot of people try to learn Vietnamese and they give up because it is a tonal language and for some this is a barrier they simply can't go over. If you say (English) Car,cAr,caaar,caRRR etc people might understand you especially if the word is in ... Read More
The Marriage Party by ancientpathos
In vietnamese culture, can someone explain to me the marriage party. Why is the cost of the party the expense of the groom? Why is there an agreed to sum of money paid to the parents? Why does it seem that every relative has a sick buffalo and ...
Officially to financially compensate then for loss of helping hands (which is not true because daughter AND mostly her new husband will always take care for her parents too and send money,she will never abandon them) at home but nowadays it's mostly ... Read More
Miniature Golf in HCMC? by mtgmike
Hello. Does anyone know of a miniature golf course in HCMC? I'm talking about the putt putt type thing with the colored balls, themes, and obstacles etc.
There seems to be one tigerminigolf.com/ Read More
How much does a wedding cost in Vietnam? by NashCat
Don't know nothing about cost of wedding, but do know I am paying for it. Bottom line, how much does an AVERAGE wedding cost in Vietnam? In Nha Trang in particular. I am hearing about $10,000 - $15000 USD.
well,you seem to be the one pushing all the expensive arrangements so I guess that is settled then.By going large you are showing them you are loaded though so don't be surprised if they will expect the same standard and treatment in the future. ... Read More
Marriage put off due to superstition by khanh44
Ok so my fiance is very traditional I guess to put it. She kisses with her nose. Well she wants to put off the wedding or get married before Tet this year because after Tet is the year of the horse. We're both born on the year of the horse so ...
I don't believe in those crap. I'm just going along to appease her and see what date he's going to pick. If I don't like the date my judgement will win over. She can nag all she wants as long I get 4 steps closer to my goal.Yeah, you can't reason ... Read More
How much does a wedding cost in Vietnam? by NashCat
Don't know nothing about cost of wedding, but do know I am paying for it. Bottom line, how much does an AVERAGE wedding cost in Vietnam? In Nha Trang in particular. I am hearing about $10,000 - $15000 USD.
khanh44, you don't need to ask parents, just ask your girlfriend and she will ask them. Tell her clearly that you are not aware of any dowry. They might wait until the last minute if they want to sneak it in (because what are you gonna do then ... Read More
How much does a wedding cost in Vietnam? by NashCat
Don't know nothing about cost of wedding, but do know I am paying for it. Bottom line, how much does an AVERAGE wedding cost in Vietnam? In Nha Trang in particular. I am hearing about $10,000 - $15000 USD.
This is way too much unless you of course have money to burn. If her family has money and are willing to help then ok but if they are "poor" then this is just a unnecessary extravaganza. Keep in mind that mostly men pay for weddings in Vietnam. ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
You need to chill, Greg and continue "doing your thing" in Hoi An,whatever it is that you are doing. kiku_hana,I'm not here to make friends,I just share my view and experiences that I gained while staying here for years :) I think most here have ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
Panadol,she did not really come here for advice.Just like kiku_hana told you,the advice is wasted. The more advices she got, the more she revealed that the question "Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl" is completely ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
wind1989,you confirmed every single thing about how the Vietnamese society and mentality works, how the children are investment for their parents (they invested money and time to have you so now you have to pay it back in some way),how the ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
kiku_hana,I'm not upset and I write pretty quickly so no worries :) Sure, it is not always parents,lots of bad girls who do it for their own or boyfriends profit. There are different kinds, for sure: some parents are downright greedy and push ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
danhask,you show a classic delusional thinking (right down to a "she doesn't even want to go abroad" argument) that a nicely described here: /forum/viewtopic.php?id=282649#1382044 yes,sure,the usual excuse that such men use. ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
yes, but that is not the point. The point is that no matter how we treat or parent this is not connected on how we feel to our partners. How you treat and love your partner has nothing to do with your relationship with your parents in the west. In ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
Yes,I agree with kiku_hana,we have wasted the time giving any advice or trying to give her clearer understanding about love or what this all is about. Her last paragraph basically tells everything. It is a classic mentality of so many Vietnamese ... Read More
Is there a love between a foreign older man and a vietnamese girl by wind1989
I am 25 years old and I graduated and I had a job in there. I met an older man 55 years old in UK in the foreign forum. When I meet him in the first time,he is very kind with me because he help me improve the English skill and I do not pay anything ...
the fact that you even have to ask this shows that you really have no idea about such relationships and what you want in your life. Marriage between much older male and younger girl is a joke in any western country but it is ok in South East Asia ... Read More